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hi,

very new to this platform. i’m just so confused on who i am. i know lots of people who don’t like labels (that’s totally cool, you do you) but i’m someone who needs to know who i am. i want and answer yet i feel like ever time i think i sorted it out, i have something telling me i’m wrong. wether it’s my friends, family, peers or even my own brain. is it normal for your own brain to tell you that your not who your supposed to be? so many people have figured out who they are and i’m still stuck between the spectrum of gender identity. whenever someone asks what pronouns i use, i freeze and just say she/her cause that’s what people perceive me as. anyone else feel this way?