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Hey @WheresMySquishy 

Well speaking as a person who had small crushes prior to being aro/ace and then not having crushes, I completely understand what you are going through!

It's ok to not have a crush or someone that you like romantically when you are aro/ace or not, it just means you need to take a longer time to find the person you like in that way.

It's also ok to not understand on what to expect when dating as aro/ace, especially when you are still new and trying to gain understanding and experience.

An example is when at times when thinking whether you either like the person platonically or have a crush on the person. Most of the time you would naturally know, so just take your time.