Hi @Jardin welcome back to the forums, it's so nice to hear from you again! It’s completely understandable that you’re feeling confused about your sexuality and romantic attraction - these things can be so complex, and navigating it all can be so challenging at times.
First off, I wanted to assure you that there’s nothing wrong with you, and you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. When it comes to romantic relationships and sexuality, there’s such a huge range of feelings and desires that people experience, and there's absolutely no one "right" way to feel.
It's perfectly okay if you don't fully resonate with either asexuality or aromanticism, or any other label right now. Sexuality and romantic attraction can be complex and fluid, and it's okay to explore and figure out what feels right for you at your own pace.
Also, feeling pressured to conform to societal expectations about dating and relationships can be so tough, especially when it seems like your friends are all following a certain path. But remember that there's no 'right' way to live your life. You get to define what happiness and fulfilment looks like for you, whether that involves dating, having sex, or pursuing other passions.
We have some resources around understanding your sexuality and feeling stressed about your sexuality that might be helpful. And if you’re ever thinking of reaching out for support with understanding your sexuality, we have a list of LGBTQIA+ support services that might be worth checking out 😊
