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Hey @Rattata 

Welcome back to the forum and thanks for sharing your story with us. My first impression when I read your words was how confusing it must have been for you to see such a sudden change in this girl's behaviour, but I can also see how much you care about her and your relationship, especially when you tried your best to communicate your feelings to her and made effort to compromise for both your feelings and her need. 

On that note, I'm wondering how your conversation with her about this matter went and have you had an opportunity to talk to anyone else (maybe your therapist or a friend) about this? If you are comfortable enough to share of course, otherwise, it's all good. Although I can't really give you any helpful insight for now, me and the members in our community will still be here if you need another ear to lift this burden off your chest:)