Hello @Rattata
Sorry to hear about the situation that you are having at the moment, that sounds pretty tough especially since you are not getting support from your girlfriend when you needed it.
In regards to this, I do believe that it is perfectly valid that you feel this way especially since you have seen a side of her which you are not accustomed to much and the shift in behaviour also made it difficult to find the right times to interact with her.
Personally, in my experience, I think a good approach for now would be to try to arrange a time to talk about how you are feeling as of late as well as how you are feeling about her shift and whether alternative or new communication times between you and your girlfriend have to be set as her time has changed as of now.
It might be a good start to communicate these matters and see if there is a way to balance your needs as well as hers. In any case, I wish you the best of luck, fingers crossed🤞
