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12-01-2021
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28-12-2020
03:56 PM
4 Kudos
hey guys hopefully everyone's Christmas was great. just wanted to make this thread so that everyone can share some happy memories and give a little smile. so here is some questions to get it started feel free to add some more. -best Christmas memory -favourite sweet and savory food during Christmas -best gift given to you at Christmas -did you believe in santa growing up remember you dont have to answer all just the ones your comfortable with!
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28-12-2020
03:51 PM
2 Kudos
hi @Sarah_472 I know how hard it can be but just remember some things take time if your brother keeps hassling you just maybe let him know that not everything works out perfectly and that I need time. but don't let anyone pressure you, good things take time. I really hope this helps. and if you do feel like you can speak to your sister in law then yeah speak to her, speak to whoever makes you feel comfortable. let us know how it goes or if you need more help.
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28-12-2020
03:45 PM
Hey so if I was in that position then I might try and hold of for a little bit just to see if maybe he needs space then try and talk to him. If he texts then maybe he was just busy or needed some time. Unfortunately I know you miss he and want to talk to him but hold off for a little bit until you find out more. If you really want to speak to him then maybe just a simple text saying "its okay if you don't want to talk I'm just letting you know I'm here". Hope this helps let me know how it all goes!
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26-11-2020
11:52 AM
3 Kudos
Hey @PhoneMomma !!! I totally understand what you mean loosing something that you liked is hard but don't worry you still have the memory of it and you will always have it in your heart. So now it's time to make new memories don't stop now everything has to keep moving forward don't get stuck in the past. I really hope this helps this is what helped me just remembering that I will always have the memory.
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23-11-2020
04:43 PM
5 Kudos
hey everyone, so I know everything is really stressful but lets find ways to keep calm. feel free to share some tips that work with you and try someone else's tips when you feel stressed. here is some tips that I use to help me when I get stressed. - writing everything down on a piece of paper and when I'm finished I get to cross everything of my list and chuck it away makes me feel so much better. - watching videos that make me laugh or my favourtie movie - cooking - cleaning - deep breathing breath in make sure your stomach is getting bigger and then blow it all back out. remember smell the flowers, blow out the candle. let me know guys how you go
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23-11-2020
03:51 PM
hi @bryana welcome! thank you for sharing your story very courageous. I hope everything has been going a bit better for you these past couple of days. a tip that I always found to be helpful is to find one thing in each day that was a positive something you were grateful for. it can be extremely small or something huge that your grateful for. such as I'm thankful that I had a nice breakfast this morning. Then slowly when your ready start being thankful for two things each day then three and so on. let me know if this helps. makes me remember that there are still positives in life even when everything seems terrible.
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23-11-2020
03:35 PM
hey @Shanti11 hopefully you've had the chance to speak to her and sort things out. let us know. If you need a little more support then I recommend that maybe you could find a different friend to live with and just explain that you need some space and a change of scenery. If not try moving in with some family that way you have somewhere to stay. If you want to help her then maybe try finding local support group but don't stress yourself if she doesn't fix her problems immediately just remember people need to learn in their own time. Hope that helps a little.
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14-11-2020
11:02 AM
9 Kudos
HEYYY so I know times were really rough and everything was really hard and stressful. I know things are still really hard so let this thread is a place to share how everything is going now. If you want answer these questions below as a general check in place. And if you feel comfortable to respond to other and gives some helpful tips as well. - during this tough time did you find enough support on reachout.com? - During this time did you wish you did something differently to make the situation better? - what new skill did you pick up during this time? - did you catch up on things you wanted to do for a while let me know so we can have a catch up!!!
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14-11-2020
10:40 AM
hey @Yin it makes sense that you miss them heaps and it is okay to go back and speak to them. I'm sure they would understand and be willing to have a catch up with you. Don't worry about your ex, if you see him try to be mutual but just remember that you don't have to be friends with everyone. You can speak to your friends if you see them and text them after school I'm sure they wont mind and would love to catch up with you. Let me know how you go with all of this.
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05-11-2020
12:10 PM
11 Kudos
So many good things have come this year even though its been tough for everyone. Being able to spend more time with family is great for me. During this time of isolation even though I was away from all my friends I was able to focus on myself for the first time in a while and catch up on things that I love and miss doing. And lastly I was finally able to find a job so thing have currently been looking up for me.
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05-11-2020
12:06 PM
4 Kudos
Hey! @Rosie97 welcome to reach out! Some people on here will give some helpful hints / tips to help you cope with what's happening. All you have to do is read them try and see if they work for you and if not comment on here saying it didn't work we will keep try to make thing better. We are all here to help you. As for the situation on hand from what I can see it seems that maybe you should spend some time apart I know that you might want to get back together but staying together right now when your constantly fighting isn't safe for either of you. Spend some time alone without your partner might make things clearer for the both of you. Then after some time apart remember to sit and talk things out (don't yell as it makes the situation worse). Always be open with how you feel and don't put pressure on yourself to make things work. Take things slow and steady. Hopefully this helps let me know !
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05-11-2020
11:27 AM
1 Kudo
hey @keezeik totally normal to feel this way but don't put too much thought into it, the fact that you reached out privately means your a really caring person and is willing to go to that further step just for a friend. Furthermore for your other friend don't think too much into it they do bring it up just explain it to them the truth and it should be fine.
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05-11-2020
11:17 AM
1 Kudo
Hey @sukidakedo I know this can be a super hard time but if you don't mind me asking to see how your going now and if anything has gotten better. I know that sometimes you need to speak to him and their is no avoiding him but do try to stay away. And also remember you are young you are going to make mistakes and no one should tell you to stop. Mistakes are just the pathway to learning. One day it will all get better. Let me know how your going when you see this
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26-10-2020
04:45 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @justkeepswimming I know its been a couple of days since you made the post but just wanted to see if anything has happened since. I for one know that if one psych doesn't help than there is always another way out. psych don't get annoyed or anything if you choose to see someone else they are taught to remember that the relationship has to work in order to continue. Also there are plenty of place online where you can talk to people privately and they wont judge you. If you do feel comfortable with your high school counsellor than you can talk to them again they wont judge you everyone has a past. to answer your questions I would say talk to someone you trust it doesn't have to be a psych it can be anyone who you think that can help you. hope to hear from you soon.
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26-10-2020
04:21 PM
2 Kudos
Hey @E_Lian ! That really sucks :( just wanted to check in and see if anything has changed. hopefully its all fixed up. Let us know if everything has been solved and if not we can give you some more options. Remember that we are here if you need any help and there is always an option out of this.
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26-10-2020
03:49 PM
Going to go see my friends tonight! I never take it for granted anymore getting to go out even if its only for a couple hours but better than nothing.
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26-10-2020
03:41 PM
7 Kudos
So I know that its hard to make friends and starting the conversation is the hardest part. What do you even say to someone when you first start talking. Sometimes you can have that awkward silence that everyone hates. Well if you struggle with getting the conversation started try these ice breakers! Answer the ones I listed below, you don't have to do them all but whatever makes you happy. Then if you have your own ice breakers that you think are helpful then add them as well. - Tell me if you could pick three people in total from past and present to have dinner who would it be? - As a child what did you wanna be when you grow up? - If you were a dog which breed would you be? - What is the weirdest food combination that you like? - What is the weirdest fact that you know?
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23-10-2020
10:34 AM
5 Kudos
haven't seen this thread done before so I thought I might try it. share your favourtie recipe and maybe on this thread try learning someone else's recipe they wrote. this is my all time fav recipe: Banana muffins ingredients: - 4 bananas - 1 cup sugar - 2 tablespoon butter melted - 1 egg beaten - 2 cup self raising flour (or normal flour and add 2 teaspoons of baking powder so it can rise) - 2 tablespoon of milk - 1 pinch of salt method: 1. preheat oven to 250 degrees Celsius and grease muffin tray with oil spray. 2. in a bowl mash the bananas and then add eggs and whisk it together. 3. then add all the rest of the ingredients to the banana and egg mixture. whisk well 4. scoop the batter into the muffin tray about half way and bake in oven for about 15 min. 5. check with skewer if it comes out clean its done. 6. cool and enjoy! share your recipe
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23-10-2020
10:20 AM
1 Kudo
lockdowns are hard! but a tip that was told to me was to stick to my original routine i.e. get up get dressed even if your not leaving the house, do everything as per normal that way life still feels like its actually going somewhere. but if this is still too much then start small one task a day and then when your ready move up to two tasks and so on until you are back in the swing of things. take your time things do get better. try finding one good thing in your day whether it be that you got out of bed or that you had a healthy breakfast or that you attended one class, anything! just keeping trying you have got this!!!
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23-10-2020
10:07 AM
making really in depth lists/ tasks always helps me with stress and best feeling is ticking of al the tasks you do. the smaller the task the more easy it is to finish and see all your goals getting ticked off. another thing is to focus on one thing at a time, have a planner on hand so you can see everything is out in front of you it may be overwhelming at first but when you start you cant stop. take breaks 45 min of study 15 min breaks stick to it so you don't loose your rhythm.
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23-10-2020
09:59 AM
2 Kudos
the reason why women carry bouquets down the isle when they are going to get married is because way back in the day women could only have showers once a year so they would carry the bouquet to mask their smell. till this day we still carry bouquets but we carry them because they are pretty.
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18-10-2020
12:24 PM
1 Kudo
i had two cheese toasties so tasty and delicious melt in your mouth worthy
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13-10-2020
11:44 AM
hey @Pyrotechnic this is definitely a hard topic, I struggle with it as well. the one thing I am sure about is it isn't you nor will it ever be. Finding the right friends are hard but try starting small, try finding one friend at a time and there is no need to rush the friendship and dive in head first. Once you get comfortable with one person then slowly start to get closer to them maybe meet their friends. remember it is okay to back away it isn't your fault. try saying hi to at least one person. the biggest tasks are always completed by taking the smallest steps. hope this helps all the best.
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13-10-2020
11:21 AM
hey jasmine_8 , this can be a really troubling time and I know it can be stressful but if I may give you some tips I would recommend definitely talking to someone you trust and if they can help you that's great, if they don't help you then I would recommend keep trying with other people you trust eventually there will be a way to get some help. stay strong there is always a way.
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13-10-2020
11:12 AM
2 Kudos
Hi justkeepswimming , I can say that I have gone through something similar and some helpful tips that I can give you would be: - remember to surround yourself with people who are going to bring out the best in you and who make you a better person. - sometimes letting go if the hardest part but I was once told that the more you hold on the more worse the rope burn is going to be (hope that makes sense) - If you still have to see this person then just try to be polite and civil as much as possible to keep things easy and mutual. if they turn their back then let it go but try to be the bigger person and be civil with this person. - Honestly if you don't find yourself comfortable in any situation never feel guilty for leaving remember that everyone has their own personal limits and should never feel threatened or unhappy. Hope this helps
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13-10-2020
10:49 AM
hey @Eden1717, little tip don't know if it will help but try maybe writing all the things you need to do (a to-do list) then try starting by completing the smallest thing on the list that way you can start getting a little bit motivated and maybe the bigger things don't seem as hard. this is just a suggestion don't know if it will help, hope it does though.
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10-10-2020
04:17 PM
1 Kudo
What do you love most about October? I love the warmer weather and that its still day at 7:30pm What's your favourite sweet treat? Chocolate pancakes, soooo fluffy. If you had to wear a mask, what would it be? masquerade mask. Don't know why just love the old vibes. What's your favourite cryptic or supernatural creature? Unicorns What is your favourite pumpkin recipe? Pumpkin soup Post a fact about bats? Bats can live up to 30 years. How do you feel about Halloween? not really interested but love the sweets. Do you have a spooky story to share with us? It could be a personal story, a creepy place, a part of history, a book, TV show or film. I don"t like anything creepy I'm a afraid of everything haha
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10-10-2020
04:11 PM
started reading the girl in the window very interesting and the mystery in it makes you want to read all day long. totally worth the read
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