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06-11-2015
02:18 AM
1 Kudo
hey @j95, how you going?
sorry to hear that happened :(
let us know when you have somewhere to stay and are all good okay
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20-09-2015
09:47 PM
1. Had a delicious dinner
2. only two and a half weeks until i go to europe!!!!!!!!!!! Todays date and the day I leave is in the same calander view on the computer and this makes me excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im gonna eat croissonts in paris yallll!!!!!!!!!!
3. About to take the dawgy out for a walk, our friends who were gonna join us on a dog date bailed but its okay it will still be fun :)
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13-09-2015
10:42 PM
1 Kudo
yeah i understand @j95 i feel the same about some of my friends. like they are on different levels - some that i can talk to about certain serious things and some i cant/wouldnt even go there
maybe they just arent as mature and switched on as you about things in that way and its not personal?
either way it still sucks when its happening to you. maybe removing yourself from the sitch is easier?
im glad you have made a new friend in work :) thats really great. would you ask them if they want to hang or go to the footy or something on the weekend?it could be the start of something awesome :D
and your new housemate sounds cool? (from last i read about him?)
Sometimes good friends come out of unsuspecting places :)
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13-09-2015
09:51 PM
2 Kudos
sorry @j95 just got up to speed with your seeing mum thread. She didnt show? :( man that sucks...
Im really sorry this has happened. It sucks you guys cant seem to have a good relationship right now but you should take comfort in the fact that you care so much about relationships and what they mean and know that one day when you have a family of your own you will do it right and not make the same mistakes as people around you have.
You are there for your brother so he doesnt have to feel shit in the ways that you have and that is truly amazing. You guys can be eachothers family and one day he will be old enough for you to lean on him more too. In the meantime i hope you are okay and that you can find a few, even one close friend that you can call your family. You dont have to be blood to be family! Some of the most amazing things we can learn are from those outside our biological family.
Yeah i have felt the shitness that is being ... overseen by friends (id say ignored but i feel like that is more a conscious thing.. sometimes friends or workmates seem to be so caught up in their own lives or heads or habits or whatever they are doing that they dont even pay attention to whats around them and dont know how much that can really impact others)
i sometimes wonder if i have missed some vital hints people have dropped me while being in my own daydreams but...
would talking to them seperately get more of an appropriate reaction? sometimes i swear when people are together there is something about their interactions - maybe they are feeding off eachother or trying to impress one another- but they fall into this bubble with only them in it and forget about everything else
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06-09-2015
11:47 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @fudgepup ! so glad you have posted here :) Welcome to Reach Out!
As @Zekk has said, you have found the right place!
I think what @Myvo has suggested is a great idea, maybe you could organise something? T
hat way people will get the idea that you like to do fun things too! Even if it is a study group but in the park or after study you all go bowling or something? It might have started accidently not being invited and then people dont see you out they assume you dont like going to parties or whatever and then they dont invite you because of that. Maybe you could spark a convo with them and ask what they are doing on the weekend, if they are doing something fun you could always tell them it sounds cool - maybe they will invite you?
As for the boy, if you are close to him maybe have a chat about it? it doesnt have to be a serious scary chat, you can build up to it or find a way to set it up whilst talking casually and let him know your reasoning and how you didnt feel you could give him the time and attention you felt he deserved kind of thing, at least that way he will know its out of good intentions not because you dont have feelings for him? What do you think?
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06-09-2015
11:03 PM
2 Kudos
1. got new shoes! well.. i work in a sneaker store so i have got kind of too many shoes but these ones are so beautiful
2. had a lovely dinner with my rents. they are actually pretty great :) im really lucky to have them
3. its my dogs bday tomorrow and i bought him a buttload of toys and ahhh i cant wait to give them to him in the morning ! ^.^ teeheee
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06-09-2015
11:00 PM
1 Kudo
@j95 you have worked so hard to get your grades up! you should be proud :)
just goes to show how we are capable of things we never thought possible if we try hard enough!
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05-09-2015
11:36 AM
1 Kudo
1. Had a yummy breakfast outside
2. Chilling on the recliner outside drinking a coffee and chilling on RO now whilst doggy is on his couch next to me being cute :)
3. Going to see a friend later, we were going to watch movies but its such a nice day, maybe we can go have a picnic!
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05-09-2015
11:19 AM
@j95 i love it when you wake up and then realise you can just continue on sleepin coz you have nothing on today!
@redhead that sounds awesome, have fun!!!
Im currently chilling outside in the comfiest recliner chair that we found on somenes bulk rubbish pile up the street. Its really clean and awesome retro orange velour floral pattern haha. We had to have it hanging half out the boot of my corolla because it was too heavy to carry home. When we finally got it out the car and onto the patio my boyfriend sat on it and i noticed a little panel on the bottom front bit. I grabbed it and it flung him into the most comfy recline ever - we didnt even know it was a recliner haha
i freakin love this couch
oh and its not wide enough for our dog to jump on and sit comfotably so its not stinky yay
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05-09-2015
11:10 AM
1 Kudo
something simple but im looking forward to hanging out with my friend today - she makes me laugh so much!
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29-08-2015
04:37 PM
I had pizza last night too @Bee ! yum oh yum
haha its funny when you accidently say things that turn out to be an unintentional lolburn :)
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29-08-2015
04:36 PM
thats so awesome @Bee!
its funny how sometimes you can have fun or time will fly when you are doing things that other times you would find boring haha :)
1. went to the markets and got yummy food and saw so many cute dogs
2. came home and had a nap
3. feeling tired and groggy still.. hope im not getting my boyfriends cold ! >.< might just rest a bit and listen to my dog currently snoring hehe so cute :)
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29-08-2015
04:04 PM
1 Kudo
woahhhh love it @N1ghtW1ng !!!
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29-08-2015
04:01 PM
today we went to a market and i had a really good coffee and chocolate croissont and then it rained but we were sheltered by a massive 100 year old tree and didnt really get wet at all :)
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23-08-2015
11:48 PM
Yes but hes more a furry child than a pet id say haha
Do you enjoy chocolate and caramel flavoured things?
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23-08-2015
11:41 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @TheveryShyguy34 good to have you back and yayy introduce yoruself every month if you want! Its cool to learn more about you!
Why dont you join in on some of the other cool threads too? Tell us what your favourite song is at the moment or even what you had for breakfast :)
Im sure you help your friend as much as he helps you. Sometimes its the little things we dont even realise that can mean a lot to people :)
Is there a reason why you think no one would notice if you were gone? We would notice!
If you want, you can post about it in the somethings not right forum. Im sure you will see just how many reachout members are here to support you and show you tha we do care!
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23-08-2015
11:26 PM
1 Kudo
1) What do you do during the days usually....?
I work at a shoe store and by night I am a dog cuddling street fighter
2) Finish this sentance "For me, ReachOut is _________"
A safe place where everyone is supportive of eachother and helps eachother out with whatever they can whenever they can! :)
3) What is the way that you treat yourself?
Chilling and watching some netflix or walking the dog / anything to do with cuddling dogs:)
4) Tell us something you are working towards at the moment
Saving money for travel and a big adventure that will see me move interstate eeeep!
5) Tell us about a person that you are grateful to have in your life (keep it anonymous, just explain their relationship to you)
Im grateful to have my best mate, she is the ying to my yang and sometimes i have to take a second to register how well she she gets me and that we are pretty similar but also very different. she always makes me laugh and even when we are doing nothing and saying nothing we have fun and enjoy eachothers company
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23-08-2015
11:18 PM
yeah I know what you mean, when you are sick and vulnerable and all you want is your own bed and own dogs to cuddle @j95
yeah the exhausted contentment after a holiday is cool, often you only really appeciate all you have seen and experienced (or maybe it only really sinks in is a better way to describe it) once you are home and back into routine a bit haha
are you planning any trips in the near or distant future? :)
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23-08-2015
11:06 PM
@j95 yeah i kind of made my way down the thread and was like yayy .. ohhh...
Sorry!
What did you end up doing? Just resting and relaxing?
Ive never been to Europe so im pretty excited! I have only ever been to Asian countries so it will be a totally different experience :) we are cramming a lot of places into only three and a half weeks... i will need a holiday after my holiday but hopefully the excitment and awe of all the cool things ive seen and learnt will keep me going when I get back :)
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23-08-2015
10:51 PM
i think it was a text message that said "ahhh maybe not" at the end
what was the last dessert you ate? :)
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23-08-2015
10:38 PM
1. New girl at work is really onto it - I was expecting a gruelling day and it was suprisingly pleasant :)
2. Went to partners parents for dinner, nice to have somene take care of the cooking after a long day !
3. I am home snug on the couch with my fluffy blanket and the kettle is boiling
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23-08-2015
10:31 PM
1 Kudo
Europe in October! yaaaaahhhhh!!!!!!!! now that I work full time I feel like I will appreciate what little time I have off a bit more
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23-08-2015
10:30 PM
1 Kudo
@redhead thats such a great achievement ! good on you hey :) im glad you got something from taking yourself to see someone, that would have taken alot.
How was your day today?
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23-08-2015
10:18 PM
haha thats kind of cool @N1ghtW1ng ! I suppose being totally surrounded by it helps you learn fast (and for it to stick pretty well apparently ? :P )
had a really nice weekend seeing friends and having the perfect balance of couch slothing and going out :) hmmm
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