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Just help me please.
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Hi @Shyzkitty, just letting you know that I emailed you last night with some support options. Have you had a chance to take a look? We're always here to lend an ear on ReachOut, but we are not a crisis service so it's really important that you reach out to a support team that can help you with when you are having thoughts about suicide.
Hi @Shyzkitty, I know how that pain of betrayal and heartache feels, and I'm really sorry your friends are not considering your feelings in behaving the way they are. Please know that their actions do not reflect who you are as a person, and they don't define you. Feeling like a runner-up really sucks, but that does not mean you are not beautiful and talented and awesome in your own right. It might not feel like there are any positives right now, but going through situations like this has a funny way of making us truly appreciate the good, kind people when they come along. And they will come along!
You said a couple of things that make me concerned, about being finished with life and wanting to die. Can I ask if you are thinking about suicide, and whether you are safe right now? It's really important that you let me know so I can get you some support options.
Hi @Shyzkitty
I'm sorry that today has been another tough day and you're friends acted the way they did in front of you. That's pretty not cool on their part, and not a sensible or mature way to handle the situation, but their actions are their decision. It does not reflect on you or your value in any way. No it's not nice of them, but it doesn't make you any less the wonderful amazing unique beautiful you that I know you are.
I second everything that has been said above and what we told you yesterday as well.
If you're feeling unsafe, I encourage you to talk to one of the helplines mentioned above.
Also, remember you are not alone and you are not unlovable. We are all still here at Reach Out and will continue to be here for you and we care about you.
By the way, you have done nothing wrong in this situation, so no need to apologise for it and for feeling the way you do, which is an understandable and legitimate way to feel. You've done the right thing and it is very courageous and admirable of you to continue reaching out here on the forums, and I encourage you to keep doing that if you're having a bad day. We are here listen to and support you, no matter how many times we have to or how long it takes.
@ShyzkittySorry to hear about your situation. I personally can't give you much advice on this subject but I'd like to say that everyone is beautiful in their own way. There will be someone out there for you and it may take a while to find that person but when you do it's worth it. I agree that them purposely doing those things in front of you is immature of them and in my opinion I wouldn't take it. I'd just think of it as a way of showing their immaturity. Again, up to you in the end.
I'd like to say that you are not worthless and that life is not over because of these people. I understand what you mean by your hurt. That's a hard thing to get over and it is possible.
I'd just like to leave you with some links and numbers that you can contact if you feel like talking to someone and getting some help.
Suicide Callback Service
www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au
1300 65 94 67
Lifeline
13 11 14
Kids Helpline
1800 55 1800
If you're feeling suicidal I'd recommend calling Suicide Callback Service or Lifeline and they can help you if you're struggling.