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R u ok?

Hey guys,

Have you asked someone today if they are ok?

 

Are you ok?

 

EloiseRose
EloiseRosePosted 11-09-2014 11:22 AM

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j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 10:01 PM
How great is it @motorhead

I play drums
 
motorhead
motorheadPosted 11-09-2014 09:57 PM
Music is good. I love music
 
j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 09:57 PM
@j95 dont really know what to call it maybe like indie rock we're on triple j unearthed which is awesome.

Nothing tomorrow, going grocery shopping and working, hanging out with a few mates and girlfriend tomorrow night at my house
 
j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 09:39 PM
@lanejane I just woke up feeling crap I tried to take sometime out went to see mum she just yelled at me and made feel so horrible about myself
 
j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 09:35 PM
Thanks @N1ghtW1ng
@lanejane im not very good at anything, I play in a band though
 
 
lanejane
lanejanePosted 11-09-2014 09:39 PM

@N1ghtW1ng cold bath haha! Smiley SurprisedSmiley Very Happy

 

@j95 that sounds good. what kind of music do you guys play? have you got anything planned for tomorrow that might make you feel better?

 
 
motorhead
motorheadPosted 11-09-2014 09:08 PM

You are not useless or worthless. You are a great person. Tell me... what are your talents? what do you love doing?

 
j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 08:48 PM
Feeling pretty useless and worthless @lanejane @reunhox
 
 
lanejane
lanejanePosted 11-09-2014 09:13 PM

@j95 

 

did you wake up feeling this way or has something happened throughout the day?

 

 
motorhead
motorheadPosted 11-09-2014 08:01 PM
I am sick of feeling like im going to throw up every day. I just want to be able to go out or go to work without having this awful feeling. I great guy has asked me out. When I see him, I get soo nervous that I throw up, and feel like I cant breath. It feels that this is going to hold me back from any type of relationship.
 
 
lanejane
lanejanePosted 11-09-2014 09:16 PM

@motorhead it must be awful feeling like that. have you read this info on the RO website about ways to relax? it talks about breathing techniques which might help to make you feel better in these situations.

 
 
 
motorhead
motorheadPosted 11-09-2014 09:23 PM
Thankyou. i will try anything at this stage. Good thing i love music
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 11-09-2014 07:27 PM
I have not asked anyone actually.

I am not ok, I am so upset with the pressure and stress I get at work with no support. I cant even have a day to myself. So frustrating!!

@j95 let it out man, it might lift the weight off your shoulders
 
j95
j95Posted 11-09-2014 01:08 PM
Yeah I have
and
nah I dont think i am actually


but why does it matter
 
 
lanejane
lanejanePosted 11-09-2014 03:42 PM

@j95 

 

it matters that you ask friends if they are okay so people have someone they feel like they can talk to and rely on.

& it matters to us that you aren't okay, because we want to support you and be there for you. Woman Happy

 

what are you feeling today?

 

 
 
 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 11-09-2014 09:30 PM
I'll be honest with you, I actually forgot. I had planned to ask my friends but it is out-of-place to just text them. They could take it as though I'm implying something or something.

@j95 don't ever forget you're awesome. We love you here and your advice to others is great. We are here for you too. Try taking a nice, warm bath. They are really relaxing and can help.

@ruenhonx I know that feeling! Although it's school with me. And exam pressures. Ohhh I should be studying.
@motorhead It is wonderful that this guy has asked you out, anxious feelings can be a pain though. Do you think you could tell this guy how you feel, the nervousness? If not, that's alright. You are a bright person, I've been following your other thread and I can tell that you are strong too. You'll get there. Robot Happy

Yeah, I'm not okay either. I have an exam tomorrow and oh boy I haven't studied. At all. But I'm going to be okay! I will.
 
 
 
 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 11-09-2014 09:31 PM
@motorhead try a nice bath (warm or cold, but warm works better) and play some of your favourite music. The bath will relax you and the music as a distraction. It's really nice.

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