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having a hard time with friends

Recently, my friend just moved to another town. We talk to each other via facebook and phone. Today he just texted me telling me to stop calling and texting him and he wants to make friends for the next 2 years.

The thing is, just 2 nights ago he told me he has no friends besides me and a handful of others.

Last night, i had another friend ask me about him and shes has asked me if i felt like i wanted to be in a relationship with him.

I have a gut feeling he either hes doesnt like me or somethings is going on

 

Unknown_user_
Unknown_user_Posted 12-02-2016 09:11 AM

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Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 12-02-2016 11:53 AM

Hey @Unknown_user_

 

Seems to me like this guy is putting up a wall for some reason. He's gone from acting and talking one way and to acting a completely different way! Why he's doing that  however is something you can only really find out by asking him! Are you comfortable with asking something simple like: "hey what's up, why the sudden changes?" or something like that? 

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 12-02-2016 12:18 PM

Let us know how you go @Unknown_user_

 
 
 
 
Unknown_user_
Unknown_user_Posted 12-02-2016 12:20 PM
Im gunna try and talk to him how he felt about me and why hes acting like this
 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 12-02-2016 12:43 PM

I think that sounds like a pretty good idea @Unknown_user_ 🙂 Sometimes a simpler question is better because it gives the person more space to say what they are feeling and that in turn will help you understand a bit better. Does that kind of make sense? Do you want to try it like that? 

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