Lol yep I know you're joking! I feel like attachment issues are more common than people talk about because people might feel ashamed about them? Lol we were learning about schema therapy in psych a few weeks ago and it seemed like a cool way of looking at stuff. A little psychoanalyticy but still. But anyway the idea I think is that 'dysfunctional' coping styles were once adaptive so we could get through whatever environment we grew up in? So they're really quite understandable? Like I said it's a bit psychoanalticy and goes back to childhood 🤣
No it does make sense! I'm quite similar with my attachment issues lol. Just add in being suspicious that people never really liked me and being super sensitive to rejection and you've got a recipe for success 😛
Yeah I do get attached to things people give me but also just random stuff as well! Also characters in shows or books (when I used to read, I can't focus anymore lol!). I don't think that's creepy at all! You can of course talk about it on here!
Ooh I also used to get kinda attached to.. okay this is embarrassing.. youtubers? 😭 Like not in a creepy stalkery way (I hope...) but like I used to watch youtube a lot when I was in school and it felt like I had company and I would like cry HAHAHAHAH. It felt like I had a friend... (I mean I had friends at the time but I was isolating myself). So yeah whatever skeletons you got i'm sure it doesn't get any worse than me obsessively watching youtubers to feel less alone and crying while doing that
Hahaha I was thinking of like a funny anecdote?
Oh no the nightmares sound awful I'm sorry you're experiencing them 😞 It makes sense you would want to avoid sleeping with all that 😞 Can I ask what the dreams are about or is that a no go zone?
How are you travelling today? I hope you're doing okay... When's your next exam? 🙃
