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This can be infuriating and violating, and is definitely not okay. It can be hard to know what to do in those moments. Calling that person out is sometimes an option, but definitely prioritise your safety first.

Some other things that can be helpful are to talk to the bar/club management staff so that they can deal with that person appropriately, trying to surround yourself with your friends and group as much as possible to feel more comfortable, and also just leaving that place if you feel unsafe.