Hey @MB95 I'm sorry it feels like everything is happening at once- the timing of stuff can SUCK sometimes. Hmmm I'm not sure telling yourself just to 'get over it' is entirely helpful... Where is that slothassion? 🙂 Having to say goodbye to people or even just any sort of change I'd argue is a loss or a grieving process and people process loss in different ways.. I don't think telling anyone to get over something is ever going to be helpful though. There's a difference between I guess pushing stuff down and acceptance though- acceptance usually follows validating how you're feeling though and I'm not so sure I'm hearing validation.. Am I reading that right?
Hmm I'm also going to question the lesson you're taking from this not to get attached to people because they leave. Cause @Eden1717 and I aren't leaving you! You will be able to find us if you do decide to go onto the other forums, okay? We're not leaving you! And even if we do say goodbye I'm not quite sure the lesson is not to form attachments... 🤔 Cause sometimes it's not people's choice to leave you know, cause 'shit happens'? I reckon some people are worth knowing even if we lose them? Anyway I will stop pushing my agenda lol and sorry for rambling. We just want you to feel safe and make whatever decision is right for you and there is no right way to feel or to process this! I would probably be feeling a similar way, like I never wanted to get attached to people again because loss can be f*cking hard 😞 So you are most welcome to ignore my sentiments lol! I'm not so encouraging about the invalidating how you're feeling by saying get over it though but it sounds like that's you're way of coping and staying safe right now?
I'm sorry you're losing your supervisor this week too 😞 That bloody sucks- and the timing! I hope you're able to find closure saying goodbye to her and your team? Same goes with saying goodbye to RO- we don't want to hold you back from saying what you need to say okay?!
Hmm I'm not sure I'm exactly 'cool' with ignoring your emotions 😅 but boundaries are important so I will respect what you need right now ❤️ Can we still check in on you or leave gifs on your thread? Or is that going to make things harder? I don't want to make things harder so if you say no I will respect that. You haven't been hard to deal with! But I think I know that feeling of feeling like you're a burden so if you're anything like me you won't believe me... I think I'm hard to deal with too a lot of the time so thanks for bearing with me 😛 (HA! If you try to respond by denying this then you're going to have to consider that maybe you're not hard to deal with!) And if you agree to this well idk maybe it's true that sometimes things can be hard with any kind of relationships, but it's not that we 'deal with people' it's that we're there for them through it all, not just when they're happy- because that wouldn't feel right?
Lol you won't freak us out! I mean.. I admit I get freaked out by sentiment sometimes but it's not really the person showing sentiment that freaks me out it's sentiment in general cause I find it really hard to trust people and that includes people who are nice to me?? 🤣 But like I have double standards cause I'm allowed to feel sentiment I just can't show it or accept it from anyone else (well most of the time...)! But once again I'm talking about me ugh
Thank you too @MB95 🙂
