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Hi @comerfordius I'm sorry to hear that you feel like a failure and unworthy after lying to your partner. I can see that this has caused you to question not only your morals but also your self worth. The fact that you do feel guilty just shows what a kind person you really are. In saying that, I also think that it's important that we acknowledge why we do things like this. In this situation, you wanted to protect your current partner, you didn't want to give them reason to feel jealous or uncomfortable over your last relationship. You also came clean and apologised, which I think was a really big thing for you to do. It sounds like you have been through a lot recently, so I just want to remind you that we are all here for you 💜