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Hey @DrummaBoy, I can see why you are feeling quite mixed right now. Figuring out your sexuality can be confusing especially when you are feeling so unsure. I think it is amazing that you have come this far and have been able to reflect on all of this. You don't have to label yourself and if you change your mind, that is okay too! The same goes for coming out. You don't have to officially come out if you don't want to. I noticed that you also said that you can't keep it to yourself. What would it be like if you told people you were still figuring out your sexuality or that you weren't completely sure? I am asking this as some kind of middle ground between telling people you are heterosexual or telling them you are bicurious, until you feel more comfortable 😀 You also don't have to tell everyone either. There might be some people who are more less receptive and I would say it is perfectly ok to pick and choose who you tell. There might be people you tell now and others you tell later once you are feeling more confident and comfortable. This is your story!
You mentioned that you have read some of our articles. Have you seen the ones on coming out and sexuality? It is so great that you feel comfortable opening up to your psychologist. If you'd like some other support, there is a service called QLife which offers webchat and counselling. We are so glad that you enjoy being apart of our community, we love having you here too