Hi @gay_disabled_human
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!
It's really mature of you for wanting to come out to your extended family on your own terms, have it be more personal, and take that opportunity to be yourself in front of the people you love.
If you feel like it went well with the letter for your mum, how do you feel about doing something similar?
Did you also want to talk in person with everyone there or speak about it individually to each person?
I was thinking, maybe you could use the same letter that you wrote before, and if possible just read off of that in front of your family. It might be scary and nerve-wracking, but that way your letter can help you express your words without having to think too much, and since you wrote it - it still comes from the heart.
Hope you are well, and best of luck 💙
