Hi @Blueberries 👋I hear you, and can understand that it can be really difficult to hear people say "it gets better" in situations where it feels like things won't improve. Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to have doubts, you have the right to express your feelings and beliefs. While we can appreciate that people are just trying to help, sometimes it’s not the most helpful thing to hear and instead can leave us feeling invalidated.

Has something happened recently to make you feel this way?

I hear that it feels like there is no hope for things to improve based on what you're going through. Though I wonder if there are potential ways to make your situation a little easier or manageable? Sometimes even small steps can make a difference in finding some relief from what you’re dealing with (even if it doesn't completely "fix" the problem) 😊

“It gets/it’ll get better” - no it doesn’t/won’t.

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