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I'm already worried about going to trade school tomorrow, it's not for like nearly a whole day but I'm already starting get worried, I really hate it 

j95
j95Posted 25-05-2017 03:50 PM
 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 23-06-2017 03:06 PM
Not good, wasn't going to but I did, then I sat outside because I didn't want to go in then I was a little late because of that and then I just sat there like always @Ben-RO
 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 23-06-2017 03:36 PM

What is your learning style @j95 

 

Also what happens if you flip your lid in class and feel overwhelmed, what support do you have? What extra support could you get? 

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 23-06-2017 03:54 PM
I don't normally flip I just get real frustrated almost silently then walk out @Ben-RO
 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 23-06-2017 04:19 PM
When I get upset I feel really small and sad and just want to be by myself.

I learn best through pictures and stuff
 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 23-06-2017 03:59 PM
And there's any support for me then
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 05:15 PM
But how do I do that
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 05:13 PM
I did that last week @Ben-RO maybe the second option I can do tomorrow
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 05:05 PM
Well I don't want to go, I never want to go, but I have to @Ben-RO
I don't know what I need, life even if I go there and stay there all day, I still know nothing there's still no point in me being there when I hate it and nothing makes sense
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 05:10 PM

Okay well. How about just for tomorrow, give yourself permission not to understand anything, but just make it through the day? 

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 05:10 PM

Or, try and learn one thing from each class. Just one 

 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 05:16 PM

Can you tell us a bit about each thing you learn? Or is there another way to kind of make a record and keep you going? 

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 05:21 PM
I can tell you about each thing, I like that idea, and then I can go home and look it up a bit, what if I don't learn anything @Ben-RO
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 04:55 PM
I guess so
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 04:54 PM
Well that was pretty harsh on myself but kind of true. But yeah you're spot on
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 04:56 PM

So that's going to take a bit of time though. We can solve like... a little bit of this before tomorrow... 

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 04:57 PM

But we might as well get started on it 🙂

 

Have you decided you want to go? 

 

If you have, what do you need to get through the day in one piece? 

 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 04:52 PM
If I wasn't dumb we wouldn't have this problem @Ben-RO
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 04:54 PM

Everyone learns differently @j95 and even if you're not a rocket scientist, that's something that can be worked on. We get smarter with practice. 

 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 04:25 PM
Yeah fine but I don't even want to go in the first place @Ben-RO
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 22-06-2017 04:43 PM

I mean it's really stressful for you and it doesn't sound like we've worked out a way of learning for you that helps yet. So why on earth would you want to go? Fair enough really. 

 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 18-06-2017 07:15 PM
That's great @j95 🙂
 
 
j95
j95Posted 22-06-2017 10:41 AM
This is tomorrow and I'm not going
 
j95
j95Posted 16-06-2017 12:43 PM
I'm having lunch @letitgo I don't think I'm going to go back to class afterwards
 
j95
j95Posted 15-06-2017 06:21 PM
@Ngaio-RO yeah even when I was at high school it was pretty crap, not a fun time at all.
It does sound kinda true. I just really hate going, I hate sitting there not understanding what's happening.
I could try that
 
j95
j95Posted 15-06-2017 06:01 PM
I see my tutor at trade school but he isn't part of student services, it's kinda organised independently through us.
Yeah we have student services @Ngaio-RO I feel like they can't help me though that's what I'm worried about, they can't fix dumb.
I don't want to go to class, it's tomorrow, I go every Friday I don't want to go back, I really don't want to

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