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Hey @MB95 Thank you for coming back and talking a bit about what's been happening for you ❤️ I just want to say.. like you didn't burn anyone out- you can't really control how other people feel and what they choose to do. Like @Eden1717 has pretty much summed it up perfectly so I won't go on about it..

 

(proceeds to go on about it) Idk I think I've just learnt a bit more that boundaries are important as well as self care and having irl supports. Like when I was feeling really low I thought what would the classic professional support tell me to do right now- they would tell me I had been isolating myself and not doing those basic things that I always roll my eyes at. So I kind of forced those things and that's kind of kept me safe? I don't know I'm trying to realise I can't control how people react because sometimes I care too much about what people think of me or if I upset them and it doesn't help anyone. A part of that means I have to give people space, even when I'm worried about them, and even when they might be pushing people away *COUGH COUGH COUGH*- And that doesn't mean I don't care.

Anyway I'm ranting now I'm sorry this is your thread. I just want to highlight it's not anyone's fault.

 

And my cat just tipped over my bin AGAIN wtf HAHA why is it always when I'm on here that he does it.

 

We do care about you and we're here @MB95 I must say I am worried by how final your post sounds but I have to respect your space. I hope you've been as okay as possible over the past little while and I trust you to be able to keep safe (just like you have to trust us) and reach out to supports (we are one of those supports!) if you feel unsafe because you do matter (everyone does ❤️)

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