Hey@Salmon_Cod welcome to the ReachOut forums, it's really great to have you here!
Thank you for sharing a little bit about what has been going on for you recently. It sounds like you have been dealing with a lot lately and I can hear what a difficult and stressful time it has been for you. How are you feeling today?
I'm sorry to hear that your girlfriend has been texting a friend about your relationship and sharing details that you are uncomfortable with, it sounds like such an awful thing to be going through. No one deserves to feel betrayed or like their partner is hiding things from them. You mentioned that you had alluded to whether she had told anyone and she said she had. Do you mind me asking whether you were able to talk to her about how this made you feel?
I am mindful of the impact this must all be having on you and was wondering what other supports you have in your life? Do you have any friends that you might feel comfortable opening up to at all, or perhaps a GP or health professional? If you would like to talk to someone, KidsHelpline is a great service and might even be able to help you come up with other things you can do in such a hard situation. I also wonder if maybe our article on Tackling difficult conversations might be able to give you some ideas as well. Do you think this might be helpful at all?
I also just want to remind you that you're not alone and we're all here to support you 💜
