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[CHAT] Days of our <online> lives

Who remembers the good old days of MSN messenger?

and MySpace? 

msn

Back before Facebook had come on the scene, you’d sit on MSN for hours at a time chatting with friends and pretending to log in *just* after your crush so that he/she would notice you were on (or was that just me?). Btw, Myspace is still a thing. Why? Who knows? But what we do know is that social media has changed – and grown – in a huge way. We’re liking each other’s FB statuses, retweeting, reblogging and sharing – connecting with each other in ways that were practically unthinkable a few decades ago.

 

All of this comes with benefits and risks, just like everything else in life. I’ll use Tumblr as an example: for those of you who don’t know Tumblr is a ‘microblogging’ platform where you have the option to make your own posts or ‘reblog’ (basically a type of sharing so that someone else’s post appears on your blog) a post. When I joined Tumblr I did not expect to find as many people as I have who share my worldview, and taught me so much about myself, themselves and the world. I was able to interact with people across the globe, and being Australian usually meant blogging with American nightbloggers who were awake during the wee hours.

 

night

 

Tumblr wasn’t – and still isnt’ – all glitter and fun times. A lot of the issues with Tumblr were similar for other social media platforms, and even now we’re still telling ourselves not to give out certain details about where we live. There’s always the worry that meeting an online friend IRL may not turn out as peachy as we might hope, and it can be difficult to read the intentions of a person you can’t actually see. This is where this week's Getting Real session comes in – hear social media stories of super great internet friendships, stories which didn’t turn out so great, and advice on how to stay safe online. Right here, Monday 29th June at 8pm AEST!

 

Sophie-RO
Sophie-ROPosted 24-06-2015 11:57 AM

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Chessca_H
Chessca_HPosted 29-06-2015 09:55 PM

 

Lastly, what’s one thing you’ve seen online today that made you smile/LOL?

 

This vine, my love for puns knows no bounds.

 
 
 
 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 29-06-2015 09:52 PM
See ya @stonepixie have a good night and stay safe.
 
 
 
 
Chessca_H
Chessca_HPosted 29-06-2015 09:50 PM

Final question of the night everyone, had so much fun talking to you all!

 

Lastly, what’s one thing you’ve seen online today that made you smile/LOL?

 
 
 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 29-06-2015 09:53 PM

Lastly, what’s one thing you’ve seen online today that made you smile/LOL?

 

This is so silly but it made me laugh 

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FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 29-06-2015 09:51 PM

 Lastly, what’s one thing you’ve seen online today that made you smile/LOL?

 

The story of the sap...

 

enough said

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:54 PM

This youtube video though hahah

i feel like a horrible person laughing but its just so funny

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:53 PM
Lastly, what’s one thing you’ve seen online today that made you smile/LOL?

A video of a girl jumping around her bedroom/dancing and her cupboard falls on top of her hahaha
 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:40 PM

Now that we've all had a collective yay for internet awesomeness, let's dish out some advice:

 

Sometimes people behave online in ways they would never offline, which unfortunately isn’t a great thing in many cases. If you had to give one piece of advice about how to be a good online citizen what would it be?

 

I think the best thing is to not be the source of negativity online, and if you can and want to post a positive comment or send something nice to someone. I also learned from a video that the best way to beat an internet troll (apart from not feeding it) is to call them out, and if enough people do it the troll won't want to come back. It can be tough though, so only if you really feel up to it

 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 29-06-2015 09:46 PM

If you had to give one piece of advice about how to be a good online citizen what would it be?

 

Be yourself and remember, if you wouldn't say it IRL, don't put it in text. An easy way to remember this is to ask yourself if you would be comfortable saying it to their face.

 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 29-06-2015 09:43 PM

Sometimes people behave online in ways they would never offline, which unfortunately isn’t a great thing in many cases. If you had to give one piece of advice about how to be a good online citizen what would it be?

 

Don't type it if you won't say it to their face.

 

 

 
 
Chessca_H
Chessca_HPosted 29-06-2015 09:42 PM

@safari93 not being the source of negativity is definitely the most important thing. Also on the flipside I think being a purposeful source of positvity is a great thing, it's nice when people go out of their way to share something that makes others smile 🙂

 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 29-06-2015 09:45 PM

Sometimes people behave online in ways they would never offline, which unfortunately isn’t a great thing in many cases. If you had to give one piece of advice about how to be a good online citizen what would it be?

 

RESPECT, RESPECT, RESPECT AND MOOOORE RESPECT. There is someone behind that screen and we need to be mindful that what we say may hurt someone else. 

 
 
 
 
Chessca_H
Chessca_HPosted 29-06-2015 09:47 PM

@ruenhonx Internet etiquette themesong 

 

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:51 PM
Sometimes people behave online in ways they would never offline, which unfortunately isn’t a great thing in many cases. If you had to give one piece of advice about how to be a good online citizen what would it be?

Don't post anything you wouldn't want your grandma to see. And people can take things to heart so much easier online (which makes sense too) so be careful how you word things, sometimes its easier to just not say anything at all.
I know I have been caught a couple of times replying to peoples facebook status's sarcastically when my input was not necessary,
 
redhead
redheadPosted 29-06-2015 09:38 PM
Another positive thing is that it gets my art out, I use social media to share my art with the world and what not.
 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:40 PM
yep social media has been great for my mental health support, my music and learning about different things in my area
 
 
Chessca_H
Chessca_HPosted 29-06-2015 09:39 PM

@redhead thats awesome 🙂 I love seeing the art people make and put online

 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:33 PM

There's so much mental health support groups and pages online, it's so important and can be useful for people who might not be able to use traditional avenues for support

 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:32 PM

@Chessca_H I'm on RO right now and I completely didn't realise!! I defs agree with you, RO is excellent and the people here are wonderful 

 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:31 PM

Now that we’ve gotten through some of our more embarrassing online moments, tell us about something really awesome that’s happened for you on/because of the Internet

 

I used to be part of an online writing community (LiveJournal, anyone?) and I loved it when people would read my work and comment on it (mostly when the comments were positive hahah). Even though most of my work was fanfiction, it was super validating to see people liked what I wrote

 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:32 PM
@safari93 i did that once when i was like 13! i posted about a bird I caught and tried to keep safe in a box.
 
redhead
redheadPosted 29-06-2015 09:29 PM
Now that we’ve gotten through some of our more embarrassing online moments, tell us about something really awesome that’s happened for you on/because of the Internet.
I met my mate which I'm going to visit in 2 weeks. I first sort help because of a depression support page on Facebook. RO.
 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:28 PM

@FootyFan26 it's perfectly okay to feel that way, and we can't help being affected by things sometimes. If you need to take a bit of time out, or you can talk about some awesome things that you might have seen happen on the internet 🙂

 
 
j95
j95Posted 29-06-2015 09:30 PM
embarrassing online moments? what about every birthday when people post ugly pictures/snapchat screenshots of you onto your facebook profile
 
safari93
safari93Posted 29-06-2015 09:22 PM

@stonepixie hahah oh dear, I know a thing or two about those kinds of statuses

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