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hi, all i have Questions

How do you convince yourself you don't like them when you have had a crush on them for awhile  and have found out they don't like you?


Re: hi, all i have Questions

Hey there @BonnieBoo,


Finding out that your crush doesn't like you can be disheartening. I noticed in your other thread that you were considering reaching out to him, is this when you found out he doesn't share your feelings?


What are some things that you do for yourself? Doing things you can enjoy can be a great distraction from negative thoughts. We have a fantastic thread over here that has a huge list of things you can do if you need ideas. 

Other things you could try are talking to your support network, is there anyone you'd feel comfortable telling about these feelings? 


I am finishing with ReachOut this week, say good-bye here. I'll miss you all!

Re: hi, all i have Questions

@Jay-RO ,yes it is when i found out he dosen't like me. yes i do he is my ex and m male best friend


Re: hi, all i have Questions

Hi @BonnieBoo!

That situation is really tough. Smiley Sad I think in times like these, support from your family and friends can be very helpful. I also think it's important to be kind to yourself. Some people like to do self care activities and dedicate a day to doing something that they enjoy when they find out that their crush doesn't like them back. One thing that helps me when I'm upset about someone is going shopping.

You might also find this article useful. Smiley Happy