Hey
@Kamryn 🙂It can be pretty normal to question your gender and sexuality. I did some searching myself before I came to terms with my own identity.
I identify as FtM trans and aromantic.
I also totally get no one using your pronouns, it sucks. Are you comfortable enough to remind people of your pronouns when they use the wrong ones, it can take some getting used for people but if they're constantly reminded they'll change quicker. I still have to remind people of my pronouns and I've been out over a year and half as trans.
Also what do you find the most confusing, we are happy to talk through it with you if you want