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LIVE GR: Moving Out of Home (11th of November 7:30pm)

Moving out of home can be an exciting time. It can potentially enable us to experience a new culture, spend more time with friends, partners or extended family, be more closer to work or study or give us a sense of freedom and independence.

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But it can also be challenging. Who knew there was so much to learn? Suddenly, you might have to learn new skills you've never had to use before. Other times, we might not get along with members of our new household or find ourselves struggling to pay the bills. What if we end up missing our old home?
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So join us this Wednesday, the 11th of November at 7:30pm, where we'll be discussing all the ins and outs of moving out of home.

Can't wait to see you all then! 🙂
 
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WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 09-11-2020 08:07 PM
 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:10 PM

Last question for the night! Smiley Very Happy

Describe your dream home and/or living situation. Where would  you live and who with? What kinds of furniture would you have? Would you  have any pets? Feel free to add anything you can imagine!


Knew I had to get a Sims gif, hahaha.

 
 
 
 
 
featuringme
featuringmePosted 12-11-2020 08:47 AM

I'm so sorry I couldn't join last night, I've been getting quite busy recently, especially with uni exams approaching. I read through the chat, so many great ideas being talked about Smiley Very Happy

 

I really like the last question, since its something I think about a lot. My dream living situation would be living in a nice little house full of cats! I'd also love a house with a more modern aesthetic, and an open, grassy backyard. I also live a few hours away from my dad's childhood town, which we visit every year and has a special place in my heart. So, I'd love to move a bit closer to it. I tend to be a bit of a dreamer, so I really like talking about this Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:19 PM

Describe your dream home and/or living situation. Where would  you live and who with? What kinds of furniture would you have? Would you  have any pets? Feel free to add anything you can imagine!
I've always said since I was young that I could not live on my own without owning a big dog (to protect me or to look like they'd protect me by being scary-looking but actually being a big cuddle bear). I haven't owned a big dog since I was a child though, so... Smiley LOL. I'd want lots of pets (would love a snake one day), and I couldn't go without my cat.

Ideally I'd like to live with a partner or family, I don't think I'd be able to trust living with even close friends or other roommates. 

I'd love to live in a bunch of different places during my life, to be honest. I'd love to even live abroad for a while some day. The dream would be to have lots of land for a dog + a garden (even though I currently kill every plant I touch Smiley LOL). I haven't thought much about wanting things in close range other than knowing I'd be difficult if I wanted to work as a university researcher when alll the major universities are pretty much in one tiny square in Australia! Smiley LOL

In terms of furniture... I imagine my tastes would be very eclectic + retro, like something directly out of the Sims. If I can ever own a home I'm definitely getting rid of white walls. Like I said, a bright green fridge? Please! Smiley LOL

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My future house... probably Smiley LOLSmiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 09:23 PM

@Hozzles  Haha, that kind of reminds me of a university lecturer I had once. I think he was from the US and he was able to get accommodation near our uni. Every lecture, he would tell us about something that went wrong in the apartment. One time, there was heavy rain and it flooded. All his belongings were soaked and he had to postpone a quiz. Another time, he managed to slip on a can of soup and injure himself. His family would also call him during the lectures too, which he would announce to everyone like 'Oh, my brother's calling now.' Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:24 PM

@WheresMySquishy that's hilarious but at the same time I feel like that'd be me. Smiley LOLSmiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 09:27 PM
lmao shoulda been a comedian not a lecturer @WheresMySquishy
 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 09:36 PM

Thank you so much to everyone who joined the chat tonight 🙂 It was awesome to hear about all of the resources available to people! I will definitely be keeping them in mind for the future just in case 😛

 

Hope everyone has a good evening and does something nice for themselves

 

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Take care :),
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Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:29 PM

I made a meme Smiley LOL Smiley LOL

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WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 09:29 PM

@Lost_Space_Explorer5  Hahaha he was so funny! I looked forward to his lectures every time. He would also ask us for recommendations of what to check out.

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 09:34 PM

We've had such an amazing discussion tonight, with so many resources! I've learned so much. Thanks everyone who participated @Lost_Space_Explorer5  @Hozzles  @panda_6940! 🙂

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Remember, if you missed this chat, you can still answer the questions! 🙂
Here they are:

1. How do you know when you're ready to move out of home? Why do some people move out earlier than others?
2. Have you moved out of home? If so, what was it like for you? If  you haven't moved out of home, do you think moving out would be fun or a  struggle? Is it something you're looking forward to in the future, or  something that you're worried about?
3. What are some things you need to keep in mind about moving out  of home? How can we budget and plan for moving out? What are some of the  things you want to get right?
4. What kinds of challenges can arise when moving out? How can we cope with these and what can we do if we're struggling?
5. Where are some places we can go if we need help moving out of home?
6. Describe your dream home and/or living situation. Where would  you live and who with? What kinds of furniture would you have? Would you  have any pets? Feel free to add anything you can imagine!

Goodnight everyone! 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 09:37 PM
Thanks @WheresMySquishy 🙂

Ooh I love the meme @Hozzles
 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 09:17 PM

Describe your dream home and/or living situation. Where would  you live and who with? What kinds of furniture would you have? Would you  have any pets? Feel free to add anything you can imagine!
I've always imagined being able to live on my own. It would be cool to live near mountains and nature, but that wouldn't be very practical, so I'll go with a city instead so that I don't have to travel very far to access services. I would want to have lots of unusual decorations, such as bottled ships, sea globes, mobiles, terrariums, succulents, a star projector, cascading lights and hanging chairs. I would also want to have plants and marimo. I have a lot of these decorations in my Animal Crossing: New Horizons home. 🙂 I feel like my house would have such a chill vibe. I can imagine there being a lot of white and blue colours around the house.
In an ideal world, I'd have lots of pets! But I wouldn't be able to commit to looking after them all. I would perhaps get a rabbit or guinea pig because I've cared for rodents before.

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:22 PM

@WheresMySquishy yes that's my biggest dilemma! Would love to live in nature but everything is in the city! The struggle Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 09:12 PM
omg I love the gif @Hozzles 😄

My dream home.. I'd have my cats, be in a stable environment. Furniture? Umm like a bed that's bigger than a single HAHA that's my dream. Ooh and some outdoor area. And with maybe someone with me who is supportive. Idk this is such an open question
 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 09:06 PM

That's an awesome list of resources @Lost_Space_Explorer5! 🙂

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 09:00 PM

@Lost_Space_Explorer5 Such a great resource! I was going to suggest Centrelink on it's own but Centrelink can be absolutely daunting if you have no idea how to navigate it (I think people who have been on it for years barely know... I don't!). Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
panda_6940
panda_6940Posted 11-11-2020 08:49 PM

Thanks for all the websites you guys have given! For people in my case, I think the university support networks could be a good place to look for help, whether that be for advice on where to live, or counselling if you're feeling homesick. Thanks for talking with me tonight everyone, it's been a great conversation! Sorry guys, I have to go now, see you all next time!

 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 08:53 PM
Thanks for chatting with us @panda_6940 🙂 You're right about there being lots of support for uni students!
 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 08:51 PM

Thanks so much for chatting @panda_6940! See you later! Smiley Very HappyHeart   

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 08:45 PM

@WheresMySquishy Wow I've never heard of Moovit before! I'm gonna have to try it Smiley LOL.
Also (on a bit of a tangent), I can't live without apps that help me navigate when I'm on-campus at uni! Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 11-11-2020 08:46 PM

@Hozzles  Yes! I also like Lost on Campus because it gives you maps of different universities and AnyTrip because it lets you look up where buses and trains are and how many seats are being taken up.

 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 11-11-2020 08:50 PM

@WheresMySquishy Let's you know how many seats are taken up! Whhaattt! Smiley Surprised thanks for these links! Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Lost_Space_Explorer5
Lost_Space_Explorer5Posted 11-11-2020 08:46 PM
Those on campus apps are a life saver @Hozzles! Except now we're doing remote learning.. they're not so useful

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