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Short Sads

Hey everyone!

I reckon we are so good at supporting each other and this section of the forum is an absolute testament to that. A place where a lot of people reach out for help for the very first time ever and it's pretty awesome to see how great you all are at supporting people through that. 

 

Life isn't just full of big new tough things though. Things don't just get better as soon as we start out on our path to recovery, it's called a path for a reason, there's many steps! And sometimes we can stumble a bit and you know what, that's okay :). 

 

A couple of weeks ago I made a thread to celebrate our achievements together. And @tsnyder made an awesome one for us to talk about the new things we're exploring in the world too!  

 

This thread is kind of like the dark side of those threads - but it has a silver lining!

 

This is a place to let us know about something tough that you're going through and -this is the important bit- for us to support each other through those tough bits, to remember how to turn negatives into positives and to work on finding solutions together.

 

If you're feeling like you're stumbling a little or like you might fall, i want you to come here to let us know about it and to draw on the AMAZING support you folks give each other.

 

So post here with the smallest fear or what feels like the greatest failure and we will support you with everything we've got! 

 

It'll probably look like this: 

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Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 05-02-2016 05:07 PM

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j95
j95Posted 02-06-2017 01:20 PM
Yeah I think that's a good idea @Ben-RO but part of me also feels bad for not really using this the way it was supposed to be used
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 02-06-2017 01:52 PM

It's all good @j95 there isn't really a wrong or right way for starters, we just found a way that is healthier for us than the old way, that's all. It takes practice to learn a new way of doing anything, and making new threads instead of using group threads is a pretty big leap for us, so it'll take some practice, and that's okay :). We can all support each other to do it too by making threads for each other when it's too hard to make one ourselves and i kinda like that 🙂

 
j95
j95Posted 01-06-2017 08:07 PM
@j95 I am not pathetic, or shit, I'm a nice person who is good at some things
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 01-06-2017 08:14 PM

I agree with you entirely 🙂 @j95 

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 02-06-2017 11:36 AM

Hey crew, I am thinking of freezing Short Sads.

 

It seems like we're getting the hang of making new threads for tough times issues but I'm worried that as new members come on they might not realise that we've decided to work through things in a different way. So if we freeze short sads then it helps people get into the habit of making threads from the get go. What do y'all reckon?

 
j95
j95Posted 28-05-2017 08:34 PM
I think I just need to get away from it all, go away for a bit
 
j95
j95Posted 06-05-2017 05:43 PM
@N1ghtW1ng it is so cold and a terrible night to be out 😞
 
 
SmileMonkey
SmileMonkeyPosted 07-05-2017 04:28 PM

How is everything going @j95? Where you able to find Sid?

 
j95
j95Posted 06-05-2017 05:31 PM
An hour and a half @N1ghtW1ng my mate lives just down the road in juc so I might have to stay at his tonight
 
j95
j95Posted 06-05-2017 04:53 PM
I'll have to call some places but I imagine a lot would be closed, already called a heap. I'm not going home until I find him @N1ghtW1ng
 
 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 06-05-2017 05:00 PM
How far away do you live from the beach @j95? Is there a chance he could be headed home? (My dog ran off the other day and once I'd gotten one inside and went out to look for her, she was at the door)
 
j95
j95Posted 06-05-2017 04:37 PM
Yeah no messages no calls posted on a surfers group I'm a part of on FB someone said they saw him about 11 not far from the beach but couldn't catch him @N1ghtW1ng
 
 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 06-05-2017 04:44 PM
That's terrible @j95, I hope he turns up soon. Is he at any vet places or shelters perhaps?
 
j95
j95Posted 06-05-2017 04:32 PM
We still haven't found Sid and I'm so upset
 
 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 06-05-2017 04:34 PM
Were you able to charge the other phone @j95?
 
j95
j95Posted 03-05-2017 10:18 PM

I'm dont normally get it off, but sneaky sneaky, I asked for it off months ago and I don't think my boss realised it was my birthday @Bree-RO

Well I'm going to see my old carer, not sure if she remembers that it was my birthday because I mentioned it last time or just wanted to catch up with me again, then I'm going out with friends for dinner to our fave rib place, my partner promised me she'd get me an icecream cake because I have never had one, I'm not 10 but they seem pretty cool 

 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 04-05-2017 09:27 AM

Happy birthday @j95!

 

Hope you enjoy the ice-cream cake. They taste delicious and are 100% suitable for all ages! Smiley Very Happy 

 
j95
j95Posted 03-05-2017 09:34 PM
I'm a bit excited for my birthday tomorrow but I'm also pretty sad because I just want my mum or someone
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 03-05-2017 10:07 PM

Hey @j95 for sure.. I think it's okay to miss your Mum, I feel the same way on my B Day sometimes about my Ma too. Do you get the day off for your Birthday, what do you think you'll get up to 🙂 ?

 
j95
j95Posted 01-05-2017 10:23 PM
I also now have one of those head in a microwaves headaches so yay
 
j95
j95Posted 01-05-2017 10:13 PM
Not going to argue but I am 100% let down @FootyFan26
 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 01-05-2017 10:15 PM
I'll agree to passionately disagree on that one but I'll take into account that you don't want to argue.

You reckon it's self care or sleep time?
 
j95
j95Posted 01-05-2017 10:08 PM
Hmm @FootyFan26 yeah dunno about that

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