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Hey everyone!

I reckon we are so good at supporting each other and this section of the forum is an absolute testament to that. A place where a lot of people reach out for help for the very first time ever and it's pretty awesome to see how great you all are at supporting people through that. 

 

Life isn't just full of big new tough things though. Things don't just get better as soon as we start out on our path to recovery, it's called a path for a reason, there's many steps! And sometimes we can stumble a bit and you know what, that's okay :). 

 

A couple of weeks ago I made a thread to celebrate our achievements together. And @tsnyder made an awesome one for us to talk about the new things we're exploring in the world too!  

 

This thread is kind of like the dark side of those threads - but it has a silver lining!

 

This is a place to let us know about something tough that you're going through and -this is the important bit- for us to support each other through those tough bits, to remember how to turn negatives into positives and to work on finding solutions together.

 

If you're feeling like you're stumbling a little or like you might fall, i want you to come here to let us know about it and to draw on the AMAZING support you folks give each other.

 

So post here with the smallest fear or what feels like the greatest failure and we will support you with everything we've got! 

 

It'll probably look like this: 

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Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 05-02-2016 05:07 PM

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j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:18 PM
No and no I won't things will never get better do you know how hard I have been trying for so long and I end up back in the same spot???? Why do I bother fucking trying and then there's people like Eheadspace just make my life hell on purpose I hate them I hate everybody I hate my stupid mum and my stupid fucking dad for even having me I should of been aborted @Bree-RO
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 16-04-2017 09:53 PM

Heya @j95 def not, so glad you were born you're such a great support who does so many amazing things i.e. volunteer at surf for disability, mentor your little siblings, starting a business. 

Why don't we start a "things to do when I am in a dark space" thread? We can go over surfing/skating/footy and other self help. I can start it if you like.

 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:55 PM

Well I want to @Bree-RO I want to

 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 10:05 PM

I am going to throw something  can't do this an y more Tgsts it 

 
 
 
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 16-04-2017 10:19 PM

@j95 I am sorry tonight's really hard on you..I am logging off now, I do trust you'll keep yourself super safe. I am going to start this thread inspired by you.

If you need support tonight please phone SCBS and speak to a counsellor, they'll help you strategise and enable the storm to pass. Number for SCBS is 1300 659 467 Heart

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 10:25 PM
I fucking hate calling them I'm not doing I'll just fucking kill myself
 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 10:23 PM
I'm not calling them!! @Bree-RO m
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:54 PM
Fine then if it will help @Bree-RO
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:52 PM
I can't deal with this anymore it's taking my over my brain!!! I want to fucking kill my self
 
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 16-04-2017 09:53 PM

@j95 are you going to SH?

 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:42 PM
I wish h I was never even born
 
safari93
safari93Posted 16-04-2017 08:58 PM

@j95 that sounds so frustrating and depressing! It can definitely seem like nobody wants to help you out in these situations, but just know we're here, and we can help as best we can, or listen to you at the very least Heart

 

Is there something you could do right now to help you with your frustration? 

 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:04 PM
I'm just sick of this @safari93 IM OVER IT
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 09:10 PM
The only thing that would help would be if I shrivelled up in a ball and died
 
 
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 16-04-2017 09:12 PM

@j95 concerned about that last comment - thoughts of dying means it's a super low night; are you going to stay safe tonight?

 

Just want to remind you you've come a long way mate, you're being very patient and your frustration is understandable. Remember this will pass, you can  get through this tonight like you have previously Heart

 
 
 
 
 
Bree-RO
Bree-ROPosted 16-04-2017 09:13 PM

@redhead I will check out your thread 🙂

 
safari93
safari93Posted 16-04-2017 08:48 PM

@j95 I think after everything that's happened in the past few days, you being furious makes perfect sense. Do you think doing something to let your anger out could help? At least for the time being anyways

 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:48 PM
I'm going to explode
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:51 PM

MHCC EMAILED ME ON THURSDAY SAYIJG YHERE WERE STILL WAITIKG FOR EHEADSPACE!!! Why don't they do their fuckimg job I have been waiting too long and I'm sick it!! I'm want to hurt them

 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:52 PM
They don't listen they don't care nobody does!!! I thought they werecsopoosed to listen to me and help me they failed that they hurt me like everyone else has
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:50 PM
Why don't things ever go right im sick of itb
 
safari93
safari93Posted 16-04-2017 08:39 PM

Hey @j95, is this anger about the Easter gifts you were planning for your sister? 

 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:40 PM

Everything @safari93 I'm going to .. someone

 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 16-04-2017 08:44 PM
EHEADSPACE STILL HAS NOT GOTTEN BACK TO ME!! MY HOUSEMATE IS AN IDIOT! MY BROTHER IS BEING ANNOYING AND THERR IS NO FICKING FOOD IN THIS STUPID HOUSE AND IM FUCKING STARVING AND WHY IS THE DOG BARKING YHERE IS NOTHONG THERE!!!!!
 
redhead
redheadPosted 16-04-2017 07:02 PM
@Bree-RO I'm at home. No voices just lots of thoughts.
@Chessca_H I made a thread, though it didn't make much sense

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