Good morning dear friend Tsynder, please view my responses below 🙂

RE: "could be interpreted as sexist, even if you don't mean it to be" - THIS makes me feel totally sick in the stomach the fact that now even so-called mental health specialists are behaving "Hyper-reactive, over-sensitive" to posts that socially disturbed people in need of help are being persecuted only because they are trying to vent their understanding about the world in hope to receive counseling in return (unlike ElleBelle) how negative and mis-understanding she is of my advocacy and devotion to women's rights that I know I have worked at for at least the past 9 years of my life ! 😞

RE: "Important to listen than just rebut peoples comments" - I am glad you mention this to me friend and will be happy to reply in detail for your understanding:

1. We must all remember there is big difference between "Listening and Following" True Agree ?

2. "Listening" = is either reading or hearing other people's views and maknig sure we understand their words - Correct ?

3. "Following" = comes after listening and IF we agree to anyone's comments then we have no reason to Rebut - True ?

RE: "Have I considered some of my thoughts are opinions, and not rather facts" ? - I can say YES I have endlessly self-reflected upon my over 15.years of daily observations and studies of the world we live in - and NO I beleive the discipline I have applied to my education is currently un-matched and please do NOT treat this as arrogant NO it is simple because of the following fact = For the past 7 years of my life I have been asking my deep questions to so many specialists and NONE of them have succeeded in answering any of them - so if the specialists cant even prove me wrong then this mean everything that I am sharing is 100% unquestionable truths - See? sad but True ? friend 😞

PS: Everyday I am waiting and hoping for IF the day will ever come when I meet someone that is actually able to answer ALL my deep questions which I have raised - in order for my heart to feel need to "follow or adjust" my current views

RE: "It takes real maturity to consider other peoples opinions" - YES I will 100% agree with this your comment indeed there is sadly "very few and far between" people that now have the time to deeply reflect on other's opinions..etc before fastly jumping to conclusions or auto-rulng out people beleifs, this I have NEVER and will NEVER do...which is reason I am a very patient gentlemen...I always "deeply analyse other's words" (sometimes for even days) before expressing my reply to anyone that I intereact with....I feel ElleBelle has not understood how much self-reflection and life experience I have compiled prior to me saying what I say HENCE instead of anyone "just reading my posts and focusing on Regulating my word and mal-judging me as sexist" ; how about this as an idea for conflict resolution:

"ElleBelle or anyone else" - should NOT quickly judge others trying to seek help (as this in itself causes further psychological detriment to the one in need (EG: "Me")) INSTEAD should go about analysing my deeply experience-based posts and questions within themselves "very patiently" and reflect on their own life experiences then AFTER such study IF their life experiences do NOT resonate anything of what I Expressed THEN they should immediately express to me Why, How, When...etc - so that I can then feel that they are acutally trying hard enough to genuinely help me (otherwise their help will be perceived by my heart's feelings as just partial nit--picking), instead of how I feel at the moment (for some of Reach-out's regulators NOT all) they just trying to censor or excessively control my heart and tongue from expressing my substantially long experiences from which I base ALL my posts and truths on;

RE: "My main concern seems that you wish to find a 'soul mate" ? - YES this is my FIRST concern + then my second concern IS to somehow start reversing the depressing trend of "Commercialised, Sexualised and Workholic Women" been pushed to the brink of their human teather (as this makes me feel "very little" hope for finding my soul-mate) in such the current state of our society 😞

RE: "People really like feeling heard and listened to" - YES I agree everyone does BUT also remember please refer to comments above about "Difference between Listening and Following" AND please share your idea on this Wisdom:

"If someone is unable to see-the-light and realize what is deeply going on in a person's needy life" then even if we did want to spend more time to try harmonize their mis-understandings of me, then I must not forget that time is so very precious, hence we should not be forced to waste excess time on people who are locked-up in their own narrow minds (EG: Defenders of Feminist movement and/or Political masters and/or Economic Entreprenuers) because we must use our Self-Discipline to cut-down thred apart "every part of a person's comments to then build it all back together in order to "Check-mate" and/or "rule-out" their commens as baseless and to only listen-follow--or acknowledge as truth "ONLY" the points that are felt by my heart as an "unquestionable truth" if any ever arise....agree with my methodology ?? friend

RE: "We can let our thinking effect our judgement of others" -YES I agree which is exactly the reason I rely on (NOT my mind to make final decision about outside world) I always follow the meridians, rhythmic beats and instinctive senses of my brain's intuition = as this is the only SURE way of "separately Fact from Fiction" furthermore:

1. the Mind is responsible for all suffering on earth today - because thinking is what makes a person ignorant;

2. the Heart can never be judged for wrong-doing as it only follows human's most innocent sense for survival.; and

3. If a person fails to explain in deeply comprehensive detail to me Why they beleive what they beleive - then this means they are still living through direction of their Mind and ignoring the truths that can only be revealed from the Heart

.....you agree ?? with these...friend

RE: "We can't judge others for having different opinions" - Please clarify IF we cant THEN what do you advice we do - to resolve any such conflict of beliefs.....

RE: "to consider we may be wrong sometimes" - YES because we all only human, and as I insinuated above - the SUREST way to test whether our perceptions of truth are right of wrong - is by self-reflecting and putting our observations through rigorous cross-checks to be absolutely solid in our conviction....you agree ?? with this method...friend

RE: "what we think are 'truths' may just be opinion" - YES the ignorance of "majority" population dont realize this, so they just continue to blindly follow whatever the politicians tell them - hence they get sucked into a black-hole vortex of lies, fanstasy and political--interest serving agendas - which is also one of my majorly depressing concerns - god help me !!! 😞

RE: "It's really important for me to listen to what others have to say" - I wish to ve VERY clear my friend, YES every post and every word within it - I analyse them in intense patience, before I deliver my replies, hence as you can see How much effort and substance of expression I have posted herein - this I hope will be best sample for anyone who beleives what I am saying is wrong - THE ABILITY TO REPLY IN COMPLETE DETAIL , TO A LEVEL THAT I AM UNABLE TO COUNTER-REPLY, THEN THIS IS CALLED "UNQUESTIONABLE TRUTHS"....understand Agree ?? friend

RE: "to consider whether what I write, could offend people" - YES correct and to say deeper : (a) I should not be rejected or judged as offending people IF what I am saying is unquestionable truths of life - because as Harsh or frank as they may be it is still real life - hence the only way to heal from mental illness and other socially isolated conditions - is by knowing every reality that exists in our current era of living in order for us to make most practical decisions to cope with the upper-classes ongoing onslaught of Artificially driven, self-interested agendas....you agree ?? friend

RE: "Support and Encouragement" - If this is their mission statement, then please tell me Reach-out's LIST of ways to help MY predicaments: (a) How ? can I live amongst a society that is being swallowed up by a sea of political "work-slave intentioned" artificiality; AND (b) How ? I ever meet a lady (within this fast-pass, workoholic society) that has not yet been blinded by the belief systems of Capitalism and Feminism - because I have RUN OUT of options 😞 please enlighten me Where ?? and What methods could I apply to help me resolve these above seemingly paradoxic distresses 😞

Awaiting your full reply Tsynder, much appreciated for you showing patience and tolerance in absorbing my posts

Best Regards from: MrFunny

Seems impossible to find a lady partner under Neo-Capitalist society :-(

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