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Following through on our resolutions

As 2016 draws to a close, a new year is fast approaching.

 

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(awww yeah!)

 

Part of the new year is making resolutions. Whether it's to exercise more, get started on that novel or story you're writing or something else, resolutions can be hard to follow through on.

 

resolutions

 

Join us next Monday, 19th at 8pm AEDT where, we'll be talking about how to get started on any changes that you might like to make, either now or in the new year, and make them stick.

N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 15-12-2016 11:04 PM

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loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 09:44 PM

Well @Ben-RO next time I want to do X, you can tell me I've promised myself not to do that anymore and I'm focusing on running instead.

And you can write my training program and come help me train (you can ride your bike while I run) Smiley LOL

 
 
 
 
 
Randomness
RandomnessPosted 19-12-2016 09:52 PM

@loves netball Setting smaller goals is a great way of working towards bigger ones. Sounds like you've got some good ideas to help with preparing for the marathon. If joining an atheletics club or the like would make you super anxious, try and focus on other methods in preparing and devise your own training plan. It can be a lot easier to ask google than someone in the real world too! Smiley Wink

Setting smaller goals for bigger goals applies to your other one as well, like setting in place things that will help prevent you getting to a place where it's hard to keep that resolution. This is a bigger discussion probably better for another ongoing thread. We'd be happy to support you however you need and help you figure that out if you want to. 

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 09:46 PM

@May_ you've given me an idea - print off my strengths profile and stick it on my wall

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 09:48 PM
@loves netball that sounds like a great idea! I think sticking reminders on walls is a really important thing to do if you want to create change 😄
 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 09:45 PM
I am liking the idea of a thread for resolutions though!
 
 
 
 
 
Stealth_ninja
Stealth_ninjaPosted 19-12-2016 09:36 PM

Maybe set mini goals?

 
 
 
 
 
RevzZ
RevzZPosted 19-12-2016 09:40 PM

What things can you put in place to help you achieve your resolutions or goals?

 

I find that having a real meaning behind them helps. If they're shallow goals, they'll spark and fizz out pretty quick. So having real passion for it so that you can constantly remind yourself helps for me.

 

Being specific as well! I don't think I can count the times I just said "I want to do better in uni" and the use up too much energy trying on everything at once.

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 09:27 PM
I like the idea of weekly goals @Randomness! I've been loving the thread someone made about that on RO
 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:59 PM

I think I just set one too difficult to achieve...   but maybe I should actually do it; gives me a purpose in life

 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 19-12-2016 08:58 PM

Well, L-sits are easy to pracitce! Maybe you can do a Marathon AND do an L-sit with all the goal setting and attaining skills you'll get tonight! At least if you'd like to 🙂 

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 09:05 PM

Do you think you have set resolutions in the past that are too difficult to achieve?

 

Yes I think I have pretty high standards for myself so I don't want to set goals that I think are too easy. But then when I set the bar too high I often end up giving up! So I gotta make some SMART goals 😛 

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:52 PM
goodnight @N1ghtW1ng and j95 thanks for stopping by! 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:52 PM

bye @j95 thanks for joining us. hope the rest of your night goes well! Smiley Happy

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:46 PM

In the exercise world SMART goals stand for: 

Specific

Measurable

Achievable

Realistic

Timely

 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 19-12-2016 08:35 PM
In the past, what do you think contributed to you following through/not following through on your resolutions?

Lazy, no real incentive or reason to follow through
 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:34 PM

Hey @May_!

 

I'd say one thing that could/would contribute would be how specific the resolutions are, and how realistic. e.g. I did set myself one to keep a diary, ideally every day. That falls under the umbrella resolution to write more.I haven't written in the diary every day, but I'd say I've made it at least once a week and the commitment to my writing has made me a lot happier.

 

Long story short, I'd say it's best to be specific and realistic. Smiley Very Happy

 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 19-12-2016 08:20 PM
Hey all!! Just a heads up, I'm on mobile and hungry so typos be damned! 😛 Although I'm such a perfectionist there probably won't be any 😄

I'm not the kind of person to make resolutions. Mainly because they're basically a goal and a new year isn't going to change my lack of wanting to change.
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:22 PM

@Ben-RO I could tell everyone how to get fitter, just come hang out with me for a week LOL

 
StarLord
StarLordPosted 19-12-2016 08:19 PM

Have you ever successfully completed a new years resolution? What resolutions worked/didn't work? What was it or how did you make sure you did it? 

 

I repayed my mum $5500 for my car and that one of the NY resolutions I actually stuck to.

 

Being in debt feels really uncomfortable for me so it was all about staying focused on saving to get away from that discomfort.

 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:20 PM
that's a huge achievement @StarLord 🙂
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:01 PM

Sooo first question...

 

What are some new years resolutions you have made in the past?

 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:26 PM

Some New Year's Resolutions I've made in the past... honestly, I don't think I could name any specific one. I tend to set myself general aims e.g. eat healthily/get fit, and then can't/ don't measure the outcomes... 

 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 19-12-2016 08:03 PM

What are some new years resolutions you have made in the past?

 
 
 
Sooooo many, generally spend less, save more, eat less, exercise more, nothing too fancy. Although once i decided i would learn Chinese, i did not succeed. 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 19-12-2016 08:05 PM

What are some new years resolutions you have made in the past?

 

Pretty common ones 

 

- Get fitter 

- Spend less money on food 

- Become more organised 

 

 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 19-12-2016 08:15 PM

Hey everyone!

 

What are some new years resolutions you have made in the past?

 

To be honest, I've never really understood this whole new years resolutions thing. Why wait until the new year to start something? But then again, I never grew up around the culture of new years resolutions.

 

This is generally my approach to people who wait til the 1st of January to start something ...

 

resolutions

 

Perhaps you guys might be able to change my mind about this.

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