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I haven't seen my Dad in 4-5 years and I really want to see him again 

My parents broke up when I was 3 

And I really miss my Dad

I really want to tell my Mum bu i'm worried about what she'll say

Dyl
DylPosted 03-06-2019 08:35 PM

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dog_lover94
dog_lover94Posted 04-12-2019 05:11 PM

Hey @Dyl 

 

How are things going? Have you found out if you will have to move schools?

 
 
 
 
 
Anikan
AnikanPosted 02-06-2020 07:53 PM

@dog_lover94 @Bre-RO @MisoBear @WheresMySquishy 

 

Hi everyone it's me @Dyl I have created a new account

 

Hope you guys are doing well I've missed chatting 

 

I have stayed at my current school 

 

Miss ya guys

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 02-06-2020 09:52 PM

Hi @Anikan! Thanks for updating us!
I hope you are doing well. It's great to hear from you again. 🙂

 
 
 
 
 
Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 15-11-2019 09:56 AM

Hey @Dyl 

 

I'm really sorry to hear about what happened at school. You mentioned that the person who pushed you lied about it - is there a teacher involved? 

 

It sounds like you really love school and are involved in a lot. When is the musical performance? Are you nervous/excited? Heart 

 

 
 
 
 
 
Dyl
DylPosted 14-11-2019 01:13 PM
We do it very similar to this original
So it'll be emotional

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkjhqJ55I1I
 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 13-11-2019 01:58 PM

Hi @Dyl

I'm so happy things are going well for you at the moment. Things are okay with me. I've been really, really busy with uni so I haven't been on the forums much. But now I'm back!

 
 
 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 13-11-2019 02:08 PM
Welcome back @MisoBear!
 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 13-11-2019 02:50 PM

Thanks @Jess1-RO,

 

It's good to be back 🙂 

 
 
 
 
 
dog_lover94
dog_lover94Posted 18-09-2019 04:06 PM

Hey @Dyl,

 

Is there an option for you to retake the test since you were so close to passing?

 

Glad things are getting back on track for you.

 
 
 
 
 
Dyl
DylPosted 19-09-2019 09:57 PM

@dog_lover94 @MisoBear @mrmusic @Bre-RO @WheresMySquishy 

Sadly no their is not

But things are going better

How are all of YOU guys?

 
 
 
 
 
mrmusic
mrmusicPosted 17-09-2019 10:19 PM

Hi @Dyl, thanks for the update. It sounds like things are starting to look up for you a little bit, which we're really happy to hear! 🙂 Sorry about the maths test though.

 

I really like what you said about the "bumps and bruises" - recovery is not a straight forward process, but from my experience, with every setback, I get a little bit stronger. A little bit like this picture:

 

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You have great insight to realise this. Keep us updated with how things go; we're always here with you on the journey. Heart

 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 18-09-2019 02:19 PM

What a great graph @mrmusic, hope you're feeling a bit better @Dyl  

 
 
 
 
 
Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 11-09-2019 04:23 PM

Hey @Dyl 

 

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through so much Heart  

 

Not getting sleep due to stress is the worst! You start to stress that you're not falling asleep and the cycle continues. Have you tried any relaxation techniques before bed? There's a ton of helpful information about sleep in this thread here

 

It's really hard when you've got stuff happening with your family - do you have any friends or family members that you could talk to about this? Know that you are welcome to share how you feel here without judgement. Heart 

 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 05-09-2019 02:15 PM

Hey @Dyl,

 

Thanks so much for sharing those vids! So inspirational 🙂 It can be hard when our friends do things that hurt us, and even more difficult when we are not sure how to respond. I'm wondering if you were to say something what would you say? You can type it out here and maybe it will help you work out how you're feeling.

 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 03-09-2019 02:36 PM

Hey @Dyl

 

I'm really sorry you're having a hard time at the moment. Can you tell me a bit about what's going on with your friends? Has something happened to make your friends turn on you, or was it out of the blue?

 

What have you been forgetting? Is it to do with being forgetful in everyday life, or maybe more specific to school or something else? 

 

Can you tell me a bit about what's going on with your teachers? What have they done which has annoyed you?

 

 I'm wondering if there's something you could do today to help you cope with these feelings? Maybe you could watch some inspirational videos from your role models, or do some of the Games on the Hanging Out section of the forums?

 
 
 
 
 
Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 03-09-2019 02:28 PM

Hey @Dyl 

 

I'm really sorry to hear that you're having some challenges at the moment. When life gets really stressful all at once it can make you feel like you hate everything. Is there anyone you feel comfortable to speak to about everything that is going on for you? Heart 

 
 
 
 
 
Dyl
DylPosted 02-09-2019 10:29 PM
I am also not sleeping till really later
 
 
 
 
 
Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 23-08-2019 12:54 PM

Hey @Dyl 

 

I don't think we've crossed paths on the forums yet. I'm one of the new community managers 🙂 

 

I just wanted to say that I think it's really heart-warming that you're sharing these uplifting videos with us all, despite things being a little up and down for you lately. You seem like a really resilient person Heart 

 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 23-08-2019 02:10 PM

I can definitely attest to @Dyl being super resiliant, @Bre-RO! Thanks for sharing those vids @Dyl

 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 07-06-2019 09:46 PM

Hi @Dyl! I personally haven't experienced a situation like yours but I think a lot of people have gone through similar things. It sounds really tricky. It's so hard not being able to see someone you love who lives far away. I just wanted to show my support. I think the advice on this thread has been great. Heart

 
 
Dyl
DylPosted 07-06-2019 09:59 PM

@WheresMySquishy @MisoBear 

Hey Mum

Yes Dylan

I think I want to see Dad

Why

Because I do

Then she'll go on about why it's a bad idea

 
 
 
Dyl
DylPosted 07-06-2019 10:00 PM

Because he's my Dad and I miss him

 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 07-06-2019 10:20 PM

@Dyl 
That's good. Maybe you write out how you'd like the conversation to go instead? When I have to have tough convos with my parents I sometimes focus on what could potentially go wrong, and I get into this headspace where I'm thinking it will fail before it's even happened. If I think about how I would like it to go (e.g. my mum listens to what I have to say without interrupting, and she supports me in my decision) then it makes me more confident about my choices.

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