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We are chatting all things home life over here. From navigating family dynamics, boundaries and independence to moving out for the first time.
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I feel like my family has ruined my childhood

My family and I spent the first 7 years of my life and 9 years of my sister’s life in a social urban area. We had neighbours who were basically family and girls who were about our age next door. We moved in 2017 and I couldn’t handle it at the time, I was freaking out. We moved to the rural country,... read more

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i don’t know what to do

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i’m 17, and for as long as i can remember my parents have always had a tensioned relationship. whether it’s about their children, money, or something they can’t agree on (big or small), it always ends in tears and anger. 

 

as of right now, it’s passed new years and for the last 2 weeks i’ve never fel... read more

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I'm worried about my cat

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I've never posted here, so I'm sorry if this isn't structured properly.CW: Threatened animal abuse (under the influence)

 

Basically, I'm 20 years old, and I've had an orange cat named Harry, who is approximately 7-8 years old. My family got him in 2022 at the start of Year 12 and I absolutely adore h... read more

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My life sucks will this end.

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This has taken me alot of courage to write this but I'm done. My life honestly sucks at this stage though and need to vent.

 

I'm 24 still stuck at home liveing with my perents because I struggle to hold down a job because of my ASD and can't get disability because I have to get re diagnosed apparent... read more

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My mental health is breaking my mum

My mum and me in my opinion have never been close it’s been a Neverending back and fourth war for as long as I can remember she claimed that ever since I was younger that my brain didn’t think correctly I thought she was delusional and I was running away causing havoc getting in trouble with the law... read more

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Divorce as a young adult

Hi everyone,

I have been going through a pretty tough year and wanted to reach out and see if anyone else has experienced something similar and has advice. I am feeling pretty lost!

Early this year my parents announced that they were getting divorced (which had been a long time coming), and that they... read more

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feeling upset about my family's lack of presence in my life - am i a horrible person?

i am in Year 11 with a younger sister aged around 10 who is intellectually disabled - she does not need around the clock support where someone is consistently by her side working with her, she will be fine with minimal attention but just someone present in the house/at school etc. with her in case o... read more

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TW: Grandfather died

I’ve seen others handle a grandparent passing and I feel like im being weak compared to them. I cried at school yesterday because I realised that I’m never going to see him again, he’s never gonna be at my soccer games again, or cut my hair again, and no matter what nothing will change that. And to... read more

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How do I continue talking to my transphobic parents?

Hi, I hope your day has been okay.

 

I'm a trans girl who's terrible at communicating hard topics, and talking to my parents. I've been out to my parents for a few months and I had thought it would be okay, having a trans brother for 4 or 5 years that they accept and support (e.g. calling via correct... read more

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My dad kinda sucks I think, but idk how to feel

(I’m dyslexic so sorry if I spell stuff wrong or have incorrect grammar, and this is my first post every)

I haven’t talk about this with anyone, mainly because my family is seen as the perfect family, loving parents and all (as well as past trauma that make it really hard for me to open up about my s... read more

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Mums mad at me / school stress

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I'm alright just feeling a bit stressed about school work and when I tried to talk to my mum about it she got mad and now she won't talk to me.

Right now I'm feeling stressed and anxious because I procrastinated my work over the long weekend 🙃 and now I'm kind of cramming on a Sunday night. I ha... read more

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Advice on Studying Far From Family

Hello guys!I moved about 18 hours away from my hometown 3 years ago to study in a big City. The change was extremely hard and have I struggled a lot mentally, academically and financially. I was once a very academically gifted student, but University has definitely changed that! I haven't made many/... read more

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can't do this anymore. need to move out asap

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the biggest problem about this is that im 15 and i understand that i can hardly do anything right now that goes for moving out. things are just so hard; parents are extremely homo/transphobic, strict on the dumbest stuff ever and it's just a pain to even be myself.

 

i feel bad saying this, bec... read more

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Feeling sad after vacations

I feel really sad after my vacations and I don't know why. 

I had gone back to my grandparents house because my grandfather was unwell. Everyone from my extended family was there, especially my cousins. I hadn't seen them face to face in 5 years ever since COVID hit so I was so excited. This is durin... read more

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