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Following through on our resolutions

As 2016 draws to a close, a new year is fast approaching.

 

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(awww yeah!)

 

Part of the new year is making resolutions. Whether it's to exercise more, get started on that novel or story you're writing or something else, resolutions can be hard to follow through on.

 

resolutions

 

Join us next Monday, 19th at 8pm AEDT where, we'll be talking about how to get started on any changes that you might like to make, either now or in the new year, and make them stick.

N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 15-12-2016 11:04 PM

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May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:19 PM
Hey @stonepixie! haha...well I'm not sure but I often feel more inspired and refreshed when the new year is approaching, hence I tend to set more goals. It's the time of the year that I get things done that I haven't had time to do during the year. Do you get that feeling at all?
 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 19-12-2016 08:27 PM
I wish @May_

Mine is more or less "Same shit, different year". But I just do things when I have the inspiration / energy.
 
 
 
 
 
StarLord
StarLordPosted 19-12-2016 08:32 PM
Looking back at what I ticked off and what I didn't do with my 2016, the things I did achieve were the things that I really wanted to happen.
Wanting it bad helps.
Also being really specific and REALISTIC.

Like one of my goals was to go to the gym every day. Guess who got burnt out doing that? Lasted a couple of months but I did maintain tracking the whole year so I'm looking forward to analysing the numbers and challenging myself to do better next year .... nerdy I know...
 
 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:37 PM

@StarLord our ideas are so similar, haha. Sorry you got burnt out, but glad you've recognised it and can hopefully prevent it from happening again.

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:34 PM
yeah that's really true @StarLord I guess it does come down to wanting something more than you want to alternative (Eg going to the gym vs watching netflix and youtube in bed)
 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:33 PM
excited to hear your answer for this one @Ben-RO! 😄
 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:37 PM

I'm with @May_, waiting to here your answer @Ben-RO

 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:07 PM

What are some new years resolutions you have made in the past?

 
Mine are pretty much always the same tbh! 
  • Read a specified number of books
  • Exercise
  • Meditate
  • Be more positive
  • Only buy clothes that I really really love
  • Keep my space clear and get rid of/let go of items that don't make me happy or serve a purpose 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:01 PM
hey @j95! 🙂
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:04 PM

Hey!!!

 

I already shared one of mine, the other I won't say and I keep failing at it (which is a really good thing, even though I tried it agian today)

 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:28 PM

Nice job on sticking to the tim tam resolution @loves netball - that chocolate-y goodness is hard to resist!

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:30 PM

@letitgo I had to stop because the whole packet would be gone in two days, but I resorted to just blocks of chocolate. So I limit the times I buy chocolate and just make my own sweets because I love baking anyway. And now that I've stopped the tim tams I don't seem to want them anymore

 
 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:38 PM

@loves netball so awesome that you make your own sweets! Isn't baking fun?!

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:39 PM

@letitgo I made white choc chip cookies this afternoon 

 
 
 
 
 
letitgo
letitgoPosted 19-12-2016 08:46 PM

Oooh, yum!! @loves netball You've inspired me - I'm going to bake those next!

 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:00 PM

Hey everyone - welcome! 🙂

 

Tonight we will be talking tips and tricks for sticking to your goals and staying motivated!

 

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I recently found my list of new years resolutions from last year and realised I hadn't completed many of them. Was it because they were tucked away in a notebook in my drawer? Were they too vague/not specific enough? Did I set goals that were unachievable?

 

 

Join us to chat about resolutions you have made in the past, what helped you stick to them, why you didn't complete some, what your plans are for 2017 resolutions and what you can do if you are struggling to stick to them!

 

Please remember to follow our community guidelines during the discussion tonight which you can find here. If at any point in this disucussion you feel overwhelmed or distressed please talk to someone on our list here.

 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 19-12-2016 08:02 PM

Hi @May_ @N1ghtW1ng @j95 @loves netball! Welcome to this evenings GRRRR!!! 

 
 
 
Stealth_ninja
Stealth_ninjaPosted 19-12-2016 08:06 PM

Hey Everyone!!!

 
 
 
 
Stealth_ninja
Stealth_ninjaPosted 19-12-2016 08:08 PM

So mine have mostly been things like:

 

- eat better

- get fitter

- get healthy

 

basically along those lines BUT i just realised that I have set goals recently and achieved them, like goals for the year. Do they count as resolutions if you didn't think of them that way till now?

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:13 PM

Seems like most of our goals directly relate to being healthier and happier!

 

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Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 19-12-2016 08:16 PM

Good point @May_ seems like new years resolutions are all about improving in some way shape or form. Or perhaps solving something that we see as a problem in our lives. 

 

Although @loves netball i do note that for you it was a very tough time. We're glad you're still here and working on those skills to stay safe and work towards recovery. 

 

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 19-12-2016 08:10 PM

I think they still count @Stealth_ninja

 

Time for the next question...

 

2. Have you ever successfully completed a new years resolution? What resolutions worked/didn't work? What was it or how did you make sure you did it? 

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 19-12-2016 08:13 PM

I don't normally have a resolution, but I told myself no tim tams, so I stopped buying them and just stuck to chocolate instead. 

 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 19-12-2016 08:11 PM

2. Have you ever successfully completed a new years resolution? What resolutions worked/didn't work? What was it or how did you make sure you did it? 

 

 

 

I actually got fitter this year, finally figured out how to make myself do things that don't give me an instant reward 😛 

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 19-12-2016 08:17 PM

2. Have you ever successfully completed a new years resolution? What resolutions worked/didn't work? What was it or how did you make sure you did it? 

 

I don't know if I have because I often make them too vague! I've come close to completing my reading goals but I think I set the bar too high...

 

So I think it's really important to make sure your goals are specific, measurable and achievable! I often feel embarrassed setting really 'easy' resolutions but I think it is key to being successful!

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