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I’m feeling really alone right now

I am feeling really anxious and alone right now. 

My heart won’t stop beating so fast. 

I’m feel so lonely. 

I’m really sorry for being like this. I just need some help tonight. 

Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 11-07-2019 09:23 PM

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Tiny_leaf
Tiny_leafPosted 11-07-2019 10:33 PM

Hi @Saltwaterdreamtime 

I don't know how helpful I actually am sorry, but I'm around to talk if you think it'd be good.

 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 12-07-2019 10:08 AM

Hi @Saltwaterdreamtime ,

It sounds like last night was a tough one for you Heart How are you feeling today?

We are all thinking of you today and are here if and when you would like to chat

 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 12-07-2019 12:25 PM
Not very good
 
 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 12-07-2019 01:00 PM

I'm really sorry to hear that @Saltwaterdreamtime Smiley Sad Do you want to chat a bit more about it?

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 12-07-2019 02:22 PM

Feel anxious @Jess1-RO @I don’t know why 

The feelings won’t go away 

 
 
 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 12-07-2019 03:41 PM

Being able to name the feeling, even when you aren't sure where it is coming from, is a really big step @Saltwaterdreamtime Heart When you have felt like this before, what helps you to get through the day? Are there any things you do, eg self care, going for a surf etc?

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 12-07-2019 07:02 PM

@Jess1-RO  I tried everything, couldn’t go for a surf but tried everything else. Still don’t feel well. 

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 12-07-2019 10:42 PM

That sounds so tough, @Saltwaterdreamtime. I'm sorry that nothing seemed to help. Smiley Sad How are you feeling now? Are you able to talk to anyone about how you're feeling? I'm here too if you want to chat. Heart

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 12-07-2019 10:44 PM

I’m really finding it hard tonight 

 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 12-07-2019 10:47 PM

@Saltwaterdreamtime  That's awful. Smiley Sad I'm sad to hear that you're having such a hard night. I hope that you can feel better. Heart

Do you think that anything could help to distract you?

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 12-07-2019 10:52 PM
Hearts racing
 
 
 
 
 
WheresMySquishy
WheresMySquishyPosted 12-07-2019 10:56 PM

That sounds so bad @Saltwaterdreamtime. Smiley Sad

Are you able to take slow, deep breaths? When I feel anxious, I like to breathe from my diaphragm, hold the breath for four seconds, and then exhale for another four seconds. Do you think that would help you?

I also like to listen to relaxing music or ambient sounds to help feel calmer. I could find some for you if you like.

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 13-07-2019 10:29 PM

I have been trying but I just can’t 

i just can’t anymore someone please help me

 
 
 
 
 
Tiny_leaf
Tiny_leafPosted 13-07-2019 10:57 PM

@Saltwaterdreamtime is there anything I could do for you?

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 14-07-2019 10:01 PM

I need some help @Maddy-RO 

 
 
 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 15-07-2019 10:54 AM

Hi @Saltwaterdreamtime 

Just checking in- how are you feeling today? It sounds like last night was a challenging one Heart Were you able to try any strategies, speak to someone or do some self care to help manage the anxious feelings?

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 15-07-2019 11:46 AM
No @Jess1-RO I don’t have anyone
 
 
 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 15-07-2019 12:52 PM
I am sorry to hear you don't have anyone around to support you at the moment Heart What are your plans for today?
 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 15-07-2019 04:04 PM
Nothing @Jess1-RO can’t reallg be fucked doing much else
 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 15-07-2019 04:49 PM
It's okay if you don't feel up to doing anything right now @Saltwaterdreamtime. I know you work really hard, sometimes we just need to rest and let ourselves have some down time. How are you feeling today?
 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 15-07-2019 06:03 PM

I already said how I was feeling today.. 

 
 
 
 
 
Maddy-RO
Maddy-ROPosted 15-07-2019 10:52 PM

Hey @Saltwaterdreamtime 

 

The forum's date has been glitchy recently which explains why @MisoBear asked how your're doing today - it currently says your conversation with Jess was from yesterday. Just thought I'd let you know. 

 

Anyway, I've been overseas so I don't really know what's been going on with you over the past month. I know you're feeling a little distressed, but I thought I'd ask how other things are going for you? How's it been living with your younger brother? Also, how's work going? How are you managing to stay warm in this cold weather??  

 
 
 
 
 
Saltwaterdreamtime
SaltwaterdreamtimePosted 16-07-2019 02:05 PM

I don’t fucking care
All I do is work come home to my brother then go to
work again the next day
stupid crap
Nobody ever listens I don’t even have a dumb counsellor or any of that shit
anymore my mentors are too busy for me just like everyone else is
What the hell are mates?

 
 
 
 
 
Beautifullybroken
BeautifullybrokenPosted 16-07-2019 02:26 PM
@Saltwaterdreamtime I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough time. It can be hard when you feel as though you have nobody to turned to. Have you ever reached out to a helpline? Or spoken to you GP about seeing a psychologist? Remember you do matter. I hope you feel better soon <3.

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