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Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

Hi @xXLexi_Lou122Xx I will try to give you a proper response when I have the head space, but for now just want to say we care about you here and you’re not alone when you have us!! These experiences and feelings sound so painful and isolating, please remember bullying is not your fault and you deserve so much better Heart

 

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Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

Hi @xXLexi_Lou122Xx! I don't have a lot of advice but I'm really proud of you for reporting the incident! That was a really brave thing to do.

I can relate to the feeling of being alone despite having friends. I've been going through some tough times recently and sometimes I feel bitter and angry about people I thought were friends or whom I could trust. A lot of people never asked about us or offered any help at all and some ignored us completely. A small gesture would have gone a long way. Sometimes we expect people to support us and they don't end up having the capacity to do so. I have learned there are lots of things I can do to help myself even if other people aren't of any help. I know it's a different situation to you because your friends don't know about the bullying but I know that lonely feelings usually end up passing and that there are often solutions to problems.

Are you able to access any other supports while your counsellor is away? I found mental health apps, such as the ones on the ReachOut website, to be a big help. There are also other helplines and services you can use in the meantime.

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

Hey @xXLexi_Lou122Xx, just wanted to check in and see how you're feeling today? 

 

I can see from the thread that you've been experiencing some bullying. This is something I can relate to, as I was bullied at school too and always felt alone in a crowd as well. If you feel like talking, I'd be happy to have a chat when you're on next Smiley Happy 

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

-sending hugs- 

 

What are you doing today @xXLexi_Lou122Xx ? 

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

Thanks for the replies everybody.
Today, I just got back from a rehearsal. I sprained my ankle last night, but we were luckily watching another highschools production the entire time.
Now I'm about to have lunch. Not sure what to have tho... probably a cheese and chicken roll toastie. Yum..................

I'm feeling pretty chill, with small feelings surfacing occasionally. I'll probably be here most of my arvo. Or I'll be on the gachalife chat... if it'll work for me..................

I wish there was somebody else I could see. There probably is, but I can't be bothered to build up another relationship. They take a lot of time and effort to build up and maintain, you know?

This bullying incident has been dealt with, at least, I hope so...
That kid hasn't done anything after that, so hopefully the message has sunk in.

Sometimes I just want to sleep. That's me rn... Sleep is all I need for the moment. I only need sleep, because I haven't been getting enough... due to my sore ankle....

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

Gah - sorry to hear about your ankle @xXLexi_Lou122Xx . That is such a pain. I hope it heals up fast. How was the other schools production? Did you like it? I love watching productions...especially professional musical theatre. 

 

I definitely feel like I can relate to feeling hesitant about starting with someone new. I have been going through that process on kidshelpline and with my new psychologist. I was feeling really frustrated by it and at times I still do. But the main thing that has kept me going is that even though they don't know me as well as my previous counselors, they are getting to know me and they care and will be there to support me and overtime you might come to want to speak to them. It's all I have right now so I feel like I need them. I think it is better than having no one. 

 

Yay! let's build on that hope and send the bullying to the ground to rest. <3 sleep sounds so good! That's what I do sometimes! 

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

I completely agree with you on new relationships.

My ankle is ok, not fractured or broken, thankfully. Just a little bit sore.

Yes I did like the other school's production. It was hilarious! Especially the cringey and sassy jokes! But my favourite character has to be La Cienega! Transgender boy to girl, has so many comedian sides! Sooo funny.

Have you seen Bring it On:the musical?

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

That's awesome. I'm glad it was a good production Smiley Happy 

 

No - I have never seen the musical version but I love the movie Smiley Very Happy @xXLexi_Lou122Xx 

 

 

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

I'm not sure if I've seen the movie or the musical... but I've seen part of either....

Re: TW: Why Am I getting Bullied? Why do I feel alone in a crowd of people?

For some reason I was thinking about some other movie, lmao. I haven't seen Bring It On the production but I have seen the movie. @xXLexi_Lou122Xx