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Otherwise known as USSS! I'm back at uni this week, and I know some of you are too so let's commiserate over assignment deadlines, share studying tips and practice deep breathing together!

ElleBelle
ElleBellePosted 01-03-2016 10:21 PM

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Esperanza67
Esperanza67Posted 26-06-2019 02:01 PM
Yay to freedom @N1ghtW1ng! 😄
 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 28-06-2019 04:39 PM
Hey y'all! I just finished my last uni exam so had to take a mini-break from the forums just to get everything done. I'm now working on the first draft of my thesis, which is a lil bit scary and I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed to be honest. I've been really lacking motivation, and I find that I will literally do anything to avoid working. Does anyone have any tips for how to get myself to focus? I have an app called Self Control which I use to block distracting websites, but I study from home as my uni campus is about 1hr from where I live so it's not all that practical to go in unless I have class. Any tips would be SO appreciated.
 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 21-07-2019 05:05 PM
Hey @MisoBear 🙂 well done on finishing your last exam!! Funnily enough I'm doing the same at the moment but not up to my first draft yet - I'm still working on the data collection. I noticed this post is from June, how have you been going with this since then? Did you find the Self Control app helpful?
 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 23-07-2019 04:26 PM
Hey,

I'm also doing data collection too, so I feel ya! Working on my lit review/method etc. Feeling a bit demotivated still but just trying to slowly chip away at it. The Self-Control app is good, I find it pretty useful. I also like using noise-cancelling headphones to play no-lyric music to help me focus. How are you going with everything? Just checking in on everyone else in the lead up to uni starting next week?
 
 
 
 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 31-07-2019 01:50 PM

Who else is back at uni this week?

 

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 31-07-2019 02:37 PM
Just came across this thread - and I'm glad - because i'm back at uni this semester too and it's great to find some people in the same boat!
 
 
 
 
 
ecla34
ecla34Posted 31-07-2019 05:13 PM

@lokifish and @reach804 , i'm also back into the thick of things 🙂 How is it already semester two?!
You guys studying anything cool this semester? 🙂 

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 11-08-2019 02:22 PM

@ecla34 from what i've heard honours is full on! How have you been finding it? You must be so excited to finish!

 

@May_ Yeah exactly! I've already picked up a few tips to use in my own life - which is the beauty of psych i guess !

 

@MisoBear I've found my first few weeks really demanding! putting in so much effort and it not being enough and failing some assessments 😞 which is new for me to kind of come to terms with because I haven't failed at uni before - but i'm taking it as a learning experience and trying to workout what i can do better!

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
MisoBear
MisoBearPosted 14-08-2019 11:06 AM

Also @reach804, failing can be such a hard thing to deal with. Especially when you haven't failed before! That's great that you're taking it as a learning experience. It can seem like a really awful, big thing now, but your failures will help you to recognise what you need to work on. I was in a really similar position at the start of my degree and it kind of gave me a bit of a wake up call that I needed to put my studies first and it was really what I needed. And, in the end I still got to where I wanted to go. But it's definitely tough when you first have to face up to those failures, so I hope you're being kind to yourself?

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 19-08-2019 04:26 PM
@MisoBear thankyou so much. I find myself exhausted all of the time that makes things hard too aha
I am being increasingly kind to myself, in the sense that each day i'm feeling better about it and more optimistic about the remainder of the semester.
I try to balance uni and working about 23 hours a week and i'm starting to think i can't keep it up as much as i want the money, you're right, uni has to come first!

@lokifish yeah a lot of psyc students on here it seems! Yayy i have every faith you'll get into honours!
Thankyou 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 16-08-2019 07:05 PM
I love that we're all at different stages of the same pathway 😛 I've almost finished my third year, so hoping to get into honours next year! Super stressful but I'm proud of myself for making it through undergrad. There is light at the end of the tunnel @reach804 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
Ladybug
LadybugPosted 17-08-2019 09:57 PM

Hi guys. Congratulations to you all on how far you've come with uni! Reading all your posts I feel proud of you all.

Similarly to a lot of you I am pursuing a psychology career path with hopes of probably doing clinical psychology one day.

I'm still in my undergrad years but have been seriously thinking about my future in this pathway. After talking to some people (career advisors, mentors and my mum)  I'm becoming more and more open to the idea of doing the masters for 2 years. It opens a lot of opportunities for me and I feel like I would be happy at the end of it all. But I have doubts. Mainly about my ability to do it. I know I am smart, but so is everybody else. And it is a hard journey, very competitive and will take a long time. It looks good now but I'm worried that over time I will lose my motivation and possibly even passion.

What do you guys think? Have any of you considered this path or did you all stop after Honours?

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 19-08-2019 04:33 PM

@Ladybug I've been stressed out to the max about even getting admitted into clin masters - it is so incredibly competitive to get into where i am and i'm worried i can do everything i possibly can and still not get in! High GPA, experience, first class honours and all the rest!

I also worry about things like getting burnt out or losing my passion, and i guess taking care of myself and taking time out are the only preventative measures i can seem to come up with at the moment.

You have what it takes 🙂

 

Along a similar line...

Does anyone have any tips about getting into clinical masters by any chance?

 
 
 
 
 
Ladybug
LadybugPosted 19-08-2019 05:43 PM

Thanks guys!

@JanaG I do have a mentor. She was set up through my university and she's good. We spoke about doing 5+1 which is a great option but also very expensive for supervisors etc. I think I'll wait until I'm closer and see how I feel about the research then.

@reach804 I'll try to look after myself, thanks for the advice. And honestly it feels nice to know that I'm not the only one and we can all support each other on the journey. I really hope you get into masters @reach804. You have what it takes too! Smiley Happy

I heard that volunteering in the community can help along with the academic marks. But I'm not sure what else. The competition is steep!

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 31-08-2019 04:18 PM
@Ladybug i've heard the same thing about volunteering and academics and it's really hard to know where the bar is about how much they expect - i guess we can only do our best 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 20-08-2019 06:44 PM

Yay, glad I found this thread!

I'm also a psychology (+ majoring in literature) third year student, looking to do honours next year. I'm a bit daunted reading all your posts because I feel like no one has ever explained to me my options after honours + what to do after. Like I know I probably want to do a PhD or something (if my mental health lets me get that far) but I have absolutely no idea how it works. I barely know the difference between 4+2 and 5+1... Smiley Sad I'm doing quite a lot of volunteering in the area and looking towards an internship maybe next year, but I'm just baffled how I've made it this far without really understanding it all! Smiley Frustrated

Does anyone have any tips for managing mental health with assignments? I've said a lot on the forums before but to explain again last year I had to take a year off uni to focus on my mental health as the pressure around assignment times was getting too much. I have OCD so I obsess over failure and compulsively try to make sure everything is perfect/ avoid the stress/ make sure I hit a set limit of stress to be able to produce the best quality of work. I'm so exhausted having to navigate this awful pattern every single time an assignment comes along Smiley Sad.

I have a learning plan with the disability team that lets me make extensions if needed etc, but maybe the next step might be organising a psychologist visit at the uni. Has anyone had experience with psychologists on-campus? I already see a psychologist but I'm thinking of switching anyway because it's not really the best help for me right now, I find.

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 31-08-2019 04:15 PM
@Hozzles from also reading the replies you've received - having a look into a uni psychologist might be really helpful 🙂
I don't feel it to the same extent - but i also put a lot of pressure on myself to do well and it definitely can be really hard to come to terms with failing something or not doing as well as you wanted to in an assessment.
What has helped me this semester is the whole 'i'm going to do my best and that's just going to have to be enough' type of self talk. I also tell myself that it's okay to have good days and bad days - we can't be perfect all of the time and we aren't going to nail an assessment every single time either 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
Hozzles
HozzlesPosted 31-08-2019 04:41 PM

@MisoBear  @TOM-RO @reach804 - thanks everyone! I managed to make an appointment with a uni psychologist next Monday. Smiley Very Happy 

I also made the hard decision of dropping one of my units. This late in the semester it counts as a Withdrawn Late, which I still have to pay for but it doesn't affect my marks. I know I can get it reimbursed due to it relating to worsening mental health so I'll ask the psychologist about that when I see them. I had the thought I'd best for me to do part-time anyway, but when the semester started I got overconfident, I guess. 

I also figure I'll probably have to do honours part-time, too. It kinda sucks knowing I'll have another two years in my Bachelor's haha but I guess it's better than not doing it at all, or making my health worse through the stress. 

 
 
 
 
 
reach804
reach804Posted 31-08-2019 05:04 PM
@Hozzles taking on a smaller number of units sounds like a way of being kind to yourself - full time uni is difficult at the best of times so im really glad to hear you're putting your own mental health first, even though it may not feel ideal with delaying graduation.
I'm sending my best wishes for your appointment next Monday 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 02-09-2019 05:31 PM
I got an extension for my assignment, so it's now due next Wednesday, but I can't get myself to focus on writing anything... so lost for motivation 😞 😛
 
 
 
 
 
mrmusic
mrmusicPosted 03-09-2019 09:26 AM

*Hugs* @lokifish I have confidence in you that you can get it done! Heart I'm struggling with motivation today as well. It's really hard isn't it?

 
 
 
 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 03-09-2019 02:55 PM
@mrmusic I wrote 100 words just before 😄 it's definitely a hard slog, though *hugs*
 
 
 
 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 18-08-2020 02:46 PM
BUMP!

How are we all coping with uni this year? Heart
 
 
 
 
 
A_Friend
A_FriendPosted 22-08-2020 12:25 PM

@lokifishand @h0peful  Hey, I'm currently in my first year so I can only imagine how tough fourth year is. I'm coping alright with my uni this year its tougher than i thought for sure but remembering this get me has been helping to me push through.

 
 
 
 
 
h0peful
h0pefulPosted 22-08-2020 12:59 PM

@A_Friend First year is so exciting! Good to hear that you're coping. Very impressive actually considering the remote learning situation. Idk about you but I have really enjoyed university this year since it has given me something to do at home hahahaha!

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