Friendships and relationships

i may've hit a new low, struggling with uni (as always, there's too much content and too few resources), my job is at risk as complications have arisen and everything feels suboptimal

funny thing is I caught up with friends this week yet I still feel moody so yeah this still sucks

So today I (17) saw a friend, he’s 14 nearly 15 and I’ve known him for a long time, he’s almost like family to me.

I've noticed he hasn’t been that good, I hadn’t seen him for a long time but I noticed he’s quieter, doesn’t eat as much, jokes about his mental health not being too good and today he... read more

(Random rant from me of the day cause I hate essays and I don’t know how I’m coping with it right now, and its due in a month time, but I've already made a head start with drafting my intro and a bit on body paragraph 1 so go me even though I hope I can get 50% at the very least for the actual resul... read more

Hey, 

How is everyone? 

Would anyone be up for a chat?

Hi all, hope you are all having a lovely day today!

I think I'll get straight to the point - I think I may have an eating disorder? My friend first raised it to me, and I've done some research and it does appear I am anorexic?

I was just wondering if anyone has any advice? I haven't really talked to... read more

hey guys! I don't like being vulnerable so I don't want to talk about my feelings, but my life is actually so cooked right now. tell me WHY I barely leave the house bruhhh. actually I do know why, it's the severe anxiety. but like that doesn't make it okay. I have a life to live and this anxiety, se... read more

at this rate im gonna fail few of my subjects and take it during summer term i hate this, im an adult i should be able to choose whether or not i want to do a subject not have 8 already chosen for me even if i have NO interest in it

just 31 more months of uni and (hopefully) a new job

post high-scho... read more

Hi Everyone, 

It's been a while since I last posted. I just wanted to say hi, update you on how things have been, and ask for some advice. 

So I would say things have started to improve since December last year. I'd come off my mood stabiliser with the help of my GP, as I didn't need it anymore. The... read more

celebrating my birthday was a good break from uni dread... but now I have to get back into hating uni again

the need to go to networking events to maximise my chances of an internship is so overstimulating, on top of midsemester tests and obviously the copious amounts of content. how long is settlin... read more

Oh great, there's gonna be another 26-30 degree celsius season starting from tomorrow onwards judging by the looks of the temperatures for each of the days on the weather app, even though we're already on autumn and we're literally 2 months away from starting winter. 🙄

honestly im just worried that... read more

Just wanting to vent about a friend of mine to get this all off my chest since I’ve been holding onto this thought for quite a while now.

So as of recently I couldn’t really stop thinking about what my online friend said to me last year (months ago to be specific). But adding onto that, it’s also to... read more

so my birthdays coming up (i wont say what date for my privacy), but idk I just don't feel excited

is uni really consuming my soul? probably. I hate it so much I don't want to do a postgrad, maybe all the fun stuff is after first year but that's still 11 months away. i only went to uni cos finding... read more

So I was inside a shopping mall standing infront of one of the asian bakeries looking at some food they got on display, and then I came across a group of high school guys (they look like year 7s??) that walk past, however one of them turned around and kinda looked at me for a few seconds or so and t... read more

So my psych is about to become a registered psychologist (predictability by April) as she’s been a provisional psychologist for a while, and the costs to see a registered psychologist (even via bulk billing) is still a lot more pricey than a provisional psychologist. I have worked with her for 6 mon... read more

I don't know if it was because of my upbringing or my ADHD or because I'm just not learning as quick as everyone else but I feel like I am seriously behind in my social development. Just to be clear, I mean things like my communication skills, my emotional regulation, and my ability to think in emot... read more

I’m kind of upset that this online friend of mine hasn’t responded back to me on discord for days. She does leave me on read sometimes which is what I don’t like about her, but at the same time I want to think that it’s because she’s overwhelmed with something because she too does have her own strug... read more

long story, but me and my friend LOVE to draw, a lot, so we have these drawing days where we both draw, and we did that same thing today, except, something was off, my friend would constantly look at my drawing, and for those I the art community, I was drawing a redesign of my new character, and my... read more

I’m having so much trouble with my sleeping atm… I’m always exhausted before bed and I fall asleep super easily but now I keep waking up randomly between 1am and 5am! Sometimes I can fall back asleep afterwards but I usually sleep lightly after that and I don’t feel refreshed when I wake up. It’s 3a... read more

Hi guys,

I'm going on a holiday soon. It's going to be my first holiday that I go on without my parents being there, just my partner and I. I'm nervous about a lot of aspects of the holiday, such as navigating the public transport and stuff, but the plane is my immediate worry. My partner doesn't ge... read more

Life has been okay but every time something good happens, I feel it goes down hill later on, especially with like friend group issues, overthinking, minor problems at school. Personally, I think I am a good person and I give back and make sure others are happy. Sometimes I don't feel like I am getti... read more

I want to be a counsellor one day, want to study counselling diploma but family not supportive the course cost a lot of money I am worried they will say no 

Any supportive words or advice will be helpful 

Hi everyone, I have been thriving recently. I've started a new volunteer position doing crisis support, and I've been getting better and better at it. I've also been going out a lot and doing fun stuff. I've been challenging myself, and growing as an individual, and life is great.

However, something... read more

so its the last day before o-week (so start of uni) and i finally cut ties with some people that i delusionally gave the benefit of the doubt for 6 years, worst mistake ever. sad that those people sucked my energy for nothing

i feel so disappointed because i trusted delayed gratification only for th... read more

even after all these weeks im still questioning the strength of the friendships i made over my high school years, doesnt feel worth those friendships were worth it. i feel so lonely and lazy as home, for me moneys not a problem, weak friendships is but idk what to do 

i cant tell who values me compa... read more

I don't know what else to say tbh