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☀️ - Things I Like About You & Me - 🥰

Hi guys, I know something similar like this has been done before, but I thought I'd try to bring it back and help our community muster more self-confidence, support, and self-appreciation.  Cat Very Happy    Heart

 

Let's say either 3 things we like about ourselves, or 3 things that we appreciate that other people do (can be general, or specific to someone you know). Ill do both because why not  Robot Very Happy

 

3 things I like about me:

  1. I like the sense of humor that I have, it's not for everyone but it's for me  Robot Very Happy
  2. I'm proud that I pushed myself to sacrifice some "fun" right now, for my future benefit (not going out as much or spending money, and instead of studying hard, and saving up)
  3. I like that I've come to accept my hair even though it can be dry, frizzy, and too thick (it has been compared to a birds nest before Smiley LOL)

 

3 things that I appreciate about others:

  1. I think it's really cool when people say thanks to cashiers, workers, etc.
  2. I like it when people come up and ask me for help or a question. Idk why but it makes me feel happy that they chose to ask me regardless of what it is. (idk if that's weird)
  3. I really appreciate it when people understand that life gets busy, and not being able to make it to plans isn't always being flaky or fake, but simply life as an adult can be hard and packed. 

If any of these apply to you, THANK YOU - you made my day!

Cheering yourself or others on, and acknowledging positives that are either big or small is a very healthy habit that can improve our mental health and boost other people's morals. The smallest compliment can go a long way!

 

 

tagging others to see what you guys appreciate!

@celestialdreamer @clarii3105  @hunginc @Macaria @Wathan @November13 @Bingo1234  @WheresMySquishy @Hozzles @Lost_Space_Explorer5 @scared01 @Saltwaterdreamtime @musicfan_xo @Tay100 @StormySeas17@Tiny_leaf @clarii3105 @ayrc_1904 @A_Friend

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What a super cute and thoughtful post! I love the idea and am so for self love especially on Valentine's! Heart As much as it's so lovely to have a partner in life, it's also so important to love yourself first 

 

3 things I like about me:

  1. I like how driven and passionate I am
  2. I like that I've planned to better myself and have goals set for who I'd like to be for myself and for others
  3. I like that I care so much for family 

3 things that I appreciate about others:

  1. I love when people help elderly people cross the street 
  2. I appreciate it when other people stand up for what they believe in even if they're a minority and feel they might not be heard or were hurt many times before
  3. I appreciate those people who actively show they care about me

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This is a great thread and it makes us find more kindness and great things around us Smiley Very Happy
so 3 things I like about me:
1. I like my self-awareness particularly on my mental state
2. I like my empathy and understanding towards others
3. I like that I still try my best to live better and meaningfully even I've been through many traumas

3 things that I appreciate about others:
1. I appreciate others when they are supporting people who have bad experience (or even a bad day)
2. I appreciate others when they don't have similar experiences (or have different opinions) but still show their respect to others and try their best to understand others.
3. I appreciate others who are nice to vulnerable groups

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@Anzelmo I love this thread so much, it made me smile reading these. 

3 things I like about me:

  1. I like my willingness to keep going even during the tough times
  2. I like my kind-heartedness 
  3. I like that I'm willing to give up things for what's important to me and that I be firm about it.

 

3 things I appreciate in others:

  1. I appreciate when others share their similar experiences or empathise with what others are going through to show support
  2. I appreciate when others smile or compliment a stranger or cashier 
  3. I appreciate when others are kind to themselves, others, animals and the world

 

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Aw this thread hits a sweet spot! 

3 things I like about me

1. My strength when it comes to holding myself up, and protecting myself from things around me 

2. My dedication to my health and making myself feel good every single day

3. My forgiveness to myself and others 

 

3 things I appreciate in others:

1. I appreciate when others smile as you pass them on a walk or out in public

2. I appreciate when someone can have a really great conversation when I am out 

3. I appreciate when my friends and people surrounding take time out to focus on themselves and grow, surrounding my world with more positivity and purity

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3 things I like about me:

- My dark sense of humour

- Doing things that I don't like 

- My love for learning

 

3 things that I appreciate about others:

- Their generosity

- Their kindness

- Their ability to show empathy and care

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Amazing thread @Anzelmo Heart

 

3 things I like about me:

  1. I like how i can communicate to help resolve problems
  2. I like that i love helping people 
  3. I like that i'm finally healing from things that have been hurtful to me

3 things that I appreciate about others:

  1. I love when strangers are kind to one another
  2. I appreciate the people who take the time to put others first when they are so busy because they see the other person struggling
  3. I appreciate the people who take the time to enjoy and love the world around us

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Hi @ayrc_1904 and @Macaria ! Heart

 

Thank you for sharing things you guys love about yourselves, and they are things you should definitely be proud of ! Both of your 2nd points as well for the things you appreciate about others are really great and sort of hit similar but different points. Smiley Very Happy

 

It is really nice to see people be strong in their views and beliefs and not fold under pressure and agree with people. But even then, it's also important to still be respectful to others because even if you don't agree with someone's views or actions, you can still show respect and support for the person themself. 

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Thanks for showing support to yourself and to others @A_Friend  and @Kaylee-RO !

 

It's so important to be strong within yourself and to keep pushing forward when times get tough. I'm happy you both have the resilience and spirit to support yourselves and it's great to also have the strength to sacrifice other things, for what you believe is important. Robot wink

 

Also @Kaylee-RO I love your last point. It is really comforting and encouraging to see people you know develop, grow, and build on themselves. Do you have any tips for how I might encourage people to do this without sounding mean or like I'm judging them?

 

Keep being you! Cat Embarassed

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@hunginc 

The fact that you love learning is such a powerful mentality to have. I know a lot of people struggle to stay motivated for these types of things and it's great to hear that you have a healthy mindset. Do you have any tips for people like me who find it hard sometimes to enjoy learning and avoid burning out? Robot Frustrated

 

 @sunnygirl606 

I'm really proud of you for healing and helping yourself recover from past experiences. That's a really big and hard step to take for some people -  Continue to stay strong, stay positive, and encouraged because I believe that once this healing is done, you'll come out a much better and stronger person. Robot Happy