cancel
Showing results for 
Search instead for 
Did you mean: 
Main content skiplink

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:01 PM

Hi all, I have a bit of a story. It's a long post btw

I have always had pets, and always a cat (I had small animals when I was younger). When I came home from university after being diagnosed with depression we didn't have any pets at the time because our last cat had been taken by a snake 😞

Anyway, I'd been home a few weeks and just felt so lost. I didn't know what to do with myself and just felt so lonely and sad. One weekend we went to petbarn and there was a black and white cat. I fell in love with him. I kept checking the website over the next week to see if he was still there. He was! It was a Thursday night and I begged my mum to go back and see if he was still for sale. As soon as Dad got home from work we went to the shop (late night shopping for the win!) with the cat basket. I was so pleased to see the little ball of fluff was still there. They let me pick him up and he was just so perfect. We brought him home.

Anyway, over the next few weeks Sooty brought a bit of light back into my life. I don't know what I would have done without him but I'd definitely say, 100% he helped me get better. He is such a caring cat, if I'm not feeling well he will sit with me. He waits for me to come home from work and is always pleased to see me.

And as I write this, he is resting against me on the couch! 

Bee
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:08 PM

@Meowkins that is such a lovely story!


Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:06 PM

That's really great @Meowkins. it's so amazing that you have an animal that's unconditionally there for you

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:13 PM

Interestingly, I think animals feel emotions the same way we do. They feel loss and don't always cope with change. But because we love them it's easy for us to provide support and animals are so receptive to our love. It goes both ways! This is why they make such great companions.

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:08 PM

For what kind of support an animal can give, I'd say that they offer a lot of consistency in your life (particularly if you live with them) that is super comforting, they also unconditionally love you and I think we can also learn a lot from animals (day-to-day mindfulness, anyone?) that would all do us the power of good.

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:03 PM

What kinds of support can emotional support animals give?

originally posted on 24-07-2017 9:05 PM

That's such an awesome experience @Meowkins, I definitely believe that animals can often support people in the exact way that they feel they need to be supported. It's so awesome to hear that you've had an experience that's been helped by support animals!

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:40 PM

What is your experience with emotional support animals?

You know, I don't think I have any experience with emotional support animals, so I'm ready to learn 🙂

scared01
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 5:56 PM

thanks @Ben-RO

**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**
Ben-RO
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 5:56 PM

Hope you can join @scared01 would love to hear a bit more about horses! 

scared01
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 5:58 PM

sure @Ben-RO sometimes its gets too much and i cant keep up with the conversation but ill try

**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**
Ben-RO
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 6:02 PM

That's okay, it's alright to jump in and out, or just focus on answering a single question at a time, we don't mind if they come in later 🙂 

scared01
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 6:08 PM

thanks Ben

**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**
Bee
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:31 PM

Hey Guys,

welcome to tonight's GR! If you've read the first post you'll know we are talking about Emotional Support Animals. So to kick it off here's our first question.

1. What is your experience with emotional support animals?


Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart

DirtWitch
Star contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:49 PM

I honestly love the concept of ES animals so much....there was a period of time when I seriously looked into getting one but unfortunately I move around too much to provide a stable environment for a pet 😞

 

I've heard a lot of stories where people talk about how they've hit rock bottom and the only thing that's kept them going is taking care of their pets....and I think having that source of unconditional love and support can play a huge role in improving someone's mental health and general quality of life!

 

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:51 PM

@DirtWitch I absolutely agree, it's a bit unfortunate that emotional support animals don't get legal recognition over here though 

Bee
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:38 PM

Hi @Ben-RO

 

1. What is your experience with emotional support animals?

 

I don't have experience with official emotional support animals, but my cats give me a lot of support in their own funny ways, does that count?

For me, my cats support me by playing with each other and simply being hilarious! They like to sleep on my bed with me at night which is awesome because they are like little heat packs in the midst of winter right now. And their purr is just so comforting 🙂

 

I'm in a rural area so I haven't even seen a guide-dog in action!

 

 


Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart

mspaceK
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:36 PM

Hi everyone!

 

I actually don't have much experience at all with emotional support animals so I am interested to learn a thing or two 🙂

 

1. What is your experience with emotional support animals?

I have seen a dog that gets brought into my local headspace a couple of times. But never directly for me. I have just had the opportunity to say hello to it and admire its cuteness. Animals make me feel warm and fuzzy inside, especially the ones that let you cuddle them. 

mspaceK
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:38 PM

In the past though, I have often found myself crying my stresses and worries to my dog that I used to live with. He would just sit there and I would cuddle him and it felt like he was listening. Sometimes I get the sense that he knows how i'm feeling. 

Bee
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:55 PM

@mspaceK I think it's a natural thing for pets to know how their human is feeling. I know one of my cats - socks is great at picking up on when I'm unhappy or really upset. That's when she is more likely to sleep at my feet or annoy me with smooches, cuddles and purrs 🙂


Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart

RevzZ
Star contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:57 PM

Sorry I'm late! I'll just be floating around cuz I like dogs 🙂

originally posted on 24-07-2017 7:56 PM

So our next question is 

What is the job of an emotional support animal to you?

originally posted on 24-07-2017 8:06 PM

I honestly don't think the role of an emotional support animal is that different from the role of a regular pet...e.g. to love and support you in any way they can! Ideally with cuddles. But I do think there are some animals with temperaments better suited to being ES animals, such as being more sensitive to your emotions and more affectionate/demanding for attention haha

Bee
Uber contributor

originally posted on 24-07-2017 8:00 PM

What is the job of an emotional support animal to you?
To me, an emotional support animal's job is to be there for their human friend. To love and help care for them. Generally just being an awesome pet 🙂


Remember you're amazing just as you are Heart